Why is it that I think it fine for a girl to date a girl but not for a boy to date a boy?

[123Cows]

I am currently dating a girl and i identify as a girl. but i dont think that a boy should date a boy. what do you think?

Its fine for a boy to date a boy

no its fine for a boy to date a boy

Its fine for a boy to date a boy but not a girl to date a girl

people of the same sex should not date

A total of 9 votes were cast: 0 girls and 9 guys. See detailed results

[SueShe]

And why would it be OK for a girl or one person that identifies as a girl to date another girl and not a boy that dates a boy?

What difference does it make? It is not natural but I do fail why it is OK for one gender and not for the other.

What are your arguments in favor of one and in disfavor of the other gender? It is simply gender discrimination.

I would be interested in finding out why you think the way you do and your reasoning behind it.

If you identify as a woman, you are not really a female from birth but more likely someone that has changed her/his gender to be more in line with what is fashionable in our society.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Some people grow up with ideas that feel “normal” simply because they were repeated around them.

Two girls together gets framed as “cute” or “less threatening,” while two guys together gets judged through a harsher, more biased lens especially in cultures where masculinity is policed tightly.

It’s not that you’re intentionally unfair.

It’s that you absorbed a double standard without noticing.

Once you see it, you can question it
if love between women feels valid, why shouldn’t love between men be treated the same way?

That’s usually where the bias starts to loosen.

[beefcakebradybatson]

The belief that lesbianism is, while far from OK, much more tolerable than gay lads.

[Alex-Snow]

It is an individuals choice on who to date and have sex with.

[Anonymous]

If there was a boy dating a boy it wouldn't involve you, so it's none of your business.

[Anonymous]

“I identify as a girl.”

You either are one or you are not.

[Abbycado]

You identify as a girl, but are you one?