Did he ghost me or did something happen?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating this guy and suddenly he stopped responding. I don’t necessarily believe he ghosted me because we met on a dating app and we’re still matched and I can see our messages but when it comes to contacting him on his phone I get nothing but I am not blocked. I just get no answer. I found his Facebook but I don’t want to add him if he really did ghost me.

[Nikki1989]

Avoid dating apps if you don't want this to happen again.

[Anonymous]

How long has it been? And how many dates?

[Asker]

It’s been 17 days and we went on a few dates

[Opinion Owner]

Have you taken the conversation off the dating app? Or is still only talking on there?

[Asker]

We’ve texted and called off the app. My number isn’t blocked because the calls go through but I get no answer

[Opinion Owner]

Gotcha! Sorry for all the questions, just trying to get an idea of how serious things were. My guess is that if he’s still using the app then it’s possible he connected more with someone else (even more than one woman tbh) and they have his attention most. I’m not sure if you even really care or you’re just curious what’s happened to him. In any case if I were you I’d be taking note of this and moving on. If he’s fine going even a day not at least checking in then it says a lot about where his priorities lie and what you can expect from him going forward.

[Asker]

Thank you! I don’t care too much but I was just curious on what happened and if he’s ok. I know I told him my last name but I wasn’t sure if he knew how to spell it and that’s why he couldn’t find me and if he got a new phone and didn’t have my number that’s another thought I had

[Opinion Owner]

That’s fair! If you’re really just curious if he’s ok then don’t feel bad about checking in. Who was the last to contact who?

[Asker]

I’ve sent him a few messages that said just thinking about you, hope all is well. I’ve thought about sending him a friend request on Facebook. I feel like the worst that could happen is he’ll block me and then I’ll know for sure he really did ghost me

[Opinion Owner]

Did he respond to those? If you were the last to engage and he isn’t responding then don’t chase him. Of course it’s kind of you to worry about his well being but I have a gut feeling he is just fine.

[Iron_Man]

How long have you known him

[In_Trance]

He's with someone else