Girls, have you ever made the first move on a guy? If so, what prompted it?

[ShadezMcgee]

[AmandaYVR]

A few times. It was prompted by a particularly strong attraction, both physically and their personality/character. I've never done a cold approach. Have to get at least somewhat comfortable and familiar with them to be drawn to them. Then it feels worth the possible rejection.

And I never knew the difference between simple, generic sort of friendliness vs. there is some mutual interest and attraction. I basically look for good conversation. I guess I might sense their eyes seem to light up a bit, and they look pretty focused on me when I talk (though focus can also denote nervousness), but that's about the only guess that I thought they might be receptive.

Anyway, overall, well worth it. Every time. When I chose, I went after who I wanted, and was more attracted; or at least very attracted. And that's fun.

[laly520]

I did before
it was more of spontaneous n not planned for
went well n he seemed to like it

[Nikki1989]

A few times. Sometimes planned, sometimes on the spur of the moment.

[Jennz6]

Yes, because he was so shy and I wanted to meet him.