Girls, Have you ever made the first move on a guy?

[Anonymous]

As a shy guy i'm interested in knowing how many girls do this.

I make the first move, I'm a type A personality, life is too short to wait around

I'm more traditional, I rather wait for the man to pick me up

I'm a shy girl lol

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Cool, some girls are badasses, i guess there's hope lol

[SueShe]

No, I have never made such a move, don't do it and never will.

I don't date and therefore, I am not confronted with that kind of problem and issue. I may be a little old fashioned but personally, it is not a girl's business to make a move on a guy.

Also, I do associate "making a move" with hitting on a person and to me, hitting on someone has a very negative connotation because I see it as attempting to get intimate with the victim of the move.

Unfortunately, I have been the victim myself of several attempts of "first moves" and my reply is invariably "not interested". I, somehow feel bad for those guys that hope that they can get laid and that I have to give a negative reply.

[PrettyPriya]

Yes, I made the first move. Now, he is my husband. The lesson there is that you don’t want to wait and completely blow a chance with someone that could be your soulmate. That is what would have happened if I did not make the first move.

Part of the reason I had to make the move is that I was working. If I had not, I may never seen him again. I work in healthcare as an office admin. He was in for a sports injury treatment. He had to come back weeks later for a follow up and physio instructions.

So, for weeks, I thought about how I was going to do it when he came back. I was nervous as heck. When the time came, I took the plunge and started a conversation. After talking a little bit, I asked if he would want to have lunch sometime. He said yes and the rest is history. We are now happily married and I wouldn’t change a thing in the world.

Worth making the first move for sure.

[Asker]

Your story should encourage more women to do the same, life is too short not to take chances! I'm so glad it worked out so well for you ☺️

[PrettyPriya]

Thanks so much! Yes, I could not be more happy and agree that when you see someone you like, go for it! I may have never seen him again.

[Flower7]

I have made the first move before, but it went badly each time.

[Asker]

Then those guys suck, when a woman makes the first move on me it makes me respect her more, the right guy appreciates it, if he doesn't he's probably a sexist bigot.

[Paulalove98]

Yeah and I’ve fucked it up a few times lol. Hoping this time it goes right and I don’t🤞

[Asker]

Well, the important thing is that You actually make the first move, that makes me feel admiration and respect for You.

[Nikki1989]

Many times.

[Asker]

Wow You are a badass, i admire You!