For the guys, has a girl ever made a first move on ya?
A few years ago I was on a week-long overseas business trip with a girl from another company we had a joint venture with - separate rooms in the hotel of course
On the 2nd evening we'd arranged to meet in the lobby bar for a drink before going out to a restaurant for dinner - I'd just gotten out of the shower and was drying myself when the room doorbell rang, and thinking it was room service "bed turndown" staff I quickly put the towel around my waist and opened the door - it was her !
Though I was surprised, I asked her in and said I needed a few more minutes to get ready/dressed and started heading towards the wardrobe to get a shirt + long pants to take into the bathroom
But she sat on the bed and beckoned me to sit with her, saying she wanted to tell me something - as I did, she leaned forward and kissed me - then she pulled towel from around my waist and held my by now already semi-erect penis in her hand -- then she pushed me down and straddled me
I was so surprised, and though I thought it wasn't a sensible thing to be sexual with a business colleague, when I saw she was pantyless under her short, flowey skirt, I just let it all happen and within a few moments she had taken all of my by then long sexual hardness inside her
She told to cum inside her because she was on bc meds, and I did, at pretty much the exact same time as her orgasm came !
We lay back and held hands and let the beautiful sexual ecstasy we'd both experienced sink in !
After a while, we showered then went out for a wonderfully enjoyable dinner, it truly was a magical night !
The next few nights were magical too !
We became very close friends, still are - whenever I'm back in my home country we always catch up and sometimes spend a few days enjoying time with each at a favourite beach-side place
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Yes, it has happened to me that a girl made the first move. It was when a girl at high school asked me to spend a free hour with her before the next course. A short while later she became my first girlfriend and we stayed together for 4 years.
However, this has been really rare and for all my partners since then I made the first move.
Well, my current girlfriend gave me her number before I could even ask for it. Not sure if that counts as a move. We were already talking at an event where we first met.
Of course, I have. Most of the time I make the first move. It is a girl's responsibility to make the first move. Some boys don't know that so they approach me even though they should wait for me to smile and say, "HI" or give some other indication that I am willing to be approached. In a group situation, circumstances often dictates who makes the first move.
Yes and the experience put me off doing so again due how sh*t it felt being rejected.
However (years later) I have convinced myself if I happen to cross paths with the lasted guy I like, I will throw caution to the wind and tell him out right (I'm fully prepared for rejection) and hope for the best.
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When i first moved to California, I changed jobs on a few occasions, and ended up in Orange County from LA County. I took a job with McGaw Laboratories in Irvine and my office was predominately women - Attractive women.
One night after work, before I could change out of my suit, the phone rang (never knew how they got my phone number? The 'girls' asked me to join them at the Lakeside Restaurant, not far from me AND work.
We almost closed the bar, and it was dark, in the parking lot where we all congregated, and one of the girls. walked up to me, away from the group and put her hand down my pants! I was shocked AND flattered, but having gone through several affairs at Firestone in my home town, I did not want a repeat of the past.
I hoped and prayed that "Jean" did not resent my lack of interest, as that was not the case at all, just wanted to maintain a professional demeanor in a new job.
Yes , it happened a good amount of times , I honestly prefer a girl to make the first move on me over me making the first move on her , Those relationships were actually better then the relationships that I made the first move on. Mainly because a girl pretty much knows what she wants when she notices a guy that gives her the butterfly flip flop feelings making it easier for me to just be myself instead of trying to impress her at all times , When a girl is into you she is into you, she automatically makes you her top priority and looks forward to seeing you , it’s a huge turn on when I know a girl really wants me that way
I was an extremely socially fucked up weirdo for my entire childhood and early adult life.
However I was attractive and I had many girls throw themselves at me over time. I think luckily I had always had a taste for fashion so I dressed well.
The girls would throw themselves at me and be confronted by a wall of anxiety and terror. I was terrified of women.
Most would be put off by it. Every single one approached me and I NEVER approached a woman.
Some even took me home or went home with me despite my clearly obvious social anxiety and fear of women.
I'm so lucky for those girls. I could have easily been an incel for life but I got lucky to look good enough to overcome all incel vibes (loooong before incel was even a thing).
So yea, womenndo approach. But only guys who look good.I had a young girl once try to suggest we could go out some time. I didn't answer yes or no to it, I didn't want to hurt her feelings. She was a sweet girl who really liked me, but she was too young for me and still not my type in other ways. I knew she was disappointed that I wasn't into her like that and for a while she was mad at me and then acted shy around me, but eventually she got over it and we were talking again. As friends lol.
Yes. There was an older man who lived next door with his parents. He was so handsome and was very athletic but he never paid attention to me because he just saw me as a little girl. I was always flirting but he never took the hint.
Our bedrooms faced each other. So one night I stood by my window in my dressing gown and waved at him and he waved back. I then dropped my dressing gown to reveal that I was completely naked, and the look of complete shock in his eyes, I then reached down between my legs and pleasured myself. Just then I heard my mother knocking and I quickly put on my dressing gown. He took the hint then.
My wife definitely let me know she was attracted to me. She had just moved to the area and was friends with a girl I knew. I ran into them at a bar and my friend introduced her to me. My wife shook my hand, I looked at her and said, "it's a pleasure meeting you", her reply, "oh, no! It's my pleasure. I've been waiting for Crystal to introduce to some of her hot friends and here you are"! She has game!
Only once in real life... A few times online..
When I first got with my husband I made the first move because he wasn't..
Same as a different guy I liked, he invited me to his house but was like you wanna go home now? because he was shy so I just kissed him and then he was relaxed with me, I went home after a couple minutes of kissing lolI have had six boyfriends? I asked two of them out. My first boyfriend was mutual, second was him, third and fourth were me, fifth and six were the guy. I’ve approached guys where it didn’t work in my favor outside of that. Personally I prefer it when the guy puts in the effort, it has led to relationships where the dynamic was better
My now-wife asked me out for our first date, and she brought up the us kissing before I did.
She appreciated that I made the first move at other times (tongue-kissing, caressing her butt), and said that she wanted me to propose if when we got as far as wanting to marry).
It's good to have each party take the lead on some things.
No and I never will. I'm not saying that I'm beyond beautiful or anything like that but I doubt that a guy would be honest and reject most girls when approached.
I think he might go with the floor even if he's not too keen about it/her.
Am I right, probably not but I stand by the thought.I've made the first move but it's because I'm less attractive. If I didn't I would be celibate forever as men don't pursue me for a relationship. Where I live women never have to make the first move if they look good, even shy guys will take a chance.
Yes but unfortunately the alarm clock woke me up
i've been told I'm intimidating because of how handsome they perceive me to be, thats cool that they say Im handsome but them being cowardly doesn't help me get laid haha, for the ones who has a pair of tits, some we hit it off and others well i wasn't attracted to
It happened to me once hehe. i was pretty shocked like 'whoa a woman approaching me really?'
it didn't work out but still i wish it happened more often lol
I must have had a much less prickly aura because at ages 15-17 girls were often making the first move on me. One even hopped on my lap and started bouncing. Another simply kissed me by surprise when I was playing piano.
both were fucking homewrecking sluts and I’m kind of glad I was too awkward to proceed
For me , many many times they have moved , certainly used to happen pretty much every time I went out , but I've seen it so many times , its hardly uncommon , been like that for many years.
I've never made the first move. I probably never will because I'm not brave enough. 😂😂
Besides I'm 100% sure that I'm going to be rejected. So I don't bother trying.
As a guy, it has happened to me twice.
The first girl was a nice person, and nice looking, but we didn't have the same values and goals in life. She was happy to stay home all day with her mom, never tried to get a job or any training/school to improve herself. And that was a major problem between us. I couldn't see her as my partner after 3-4 months.
The second girl who made the first move is who I married in a little over a year after dating. She's my soul mate of 43 years.
It happened to me in my senior year of high school. We ended up having a lot of fun and a bit more!
Yup and it worked out great, we dated for 3 and half years. It's a pity we didn't work out. He was great and I truly thought he and I would end up getting married.
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