My boyfriend is a 24 year old living with his guardian paying him 400 a month.. why is there no urgency to get out?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo that is kinda weird that your boy is still livin at home at 24 gettin an allowance from his guardian like that. I wouldn't wanna be dependin on my parents at that age, want my own space ya feel?

A few possibilities for why he ain't in no hurry to move out:

- Lazy/comfortable - Maybe he likes havin everythin taken care of for him and not havin real responsibilities. Livin at home is easy.

- Money issues - Even with the $400, savin for a place of his own might be tough if he pays for his own stuff. Rent's expensive.

- Mama's boy - Some dudes just don't wanna cut the cord fully from their parents. Might be too attached still.

- No ambition - Could be he just ain't got no plans or motivation to advance his life. Happy where he's at.

Ultimately it comes down to drive and maturity level. Most guys his age wanna fly the nest. I'd be questioning his priorities if he's content livin off mommy and daddy like that long-term, feel? Might not be the motivated type of dude you want. Just my two cents!

[molonski2]

Because he is a lazy fck , and everything is supplied and he gets $400 a month , so to him its " How good is this " , as he flicks to the next video game or porn site. He's a lazy fck thats why.

[Asker]

Like why not be motivated to move out with me? Instead of staying there? He’s like what’s the rush, it’s just frustrating

[HelpfulWoman]

because its a sweet ass deal and he has no need to? smarter in this day and age

[EmmaMary]

Yet another pathetic, lazy, bone idled, juvenile delinquent parasite.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[HouseMoat]

If you don't like him living there, don't date him. You can't "change" people, just because YOU WANT IT