Girls, at what age did looks become less important to you?

[Anonymous]

You have to be attracted to a potential partner but at what age did you start placing less importance on looks and more on other things such as financial stability, personality, etc?

[Crimsyjo]

I really wanna be the wonderful person that says looks never mattered to me. But that would be a lie. I must be attracted to someone! However, this does not mean a guy is not going to be attractive to somebody. What is attractive to me is not same for another woman. The word "attraction" and "looks" are also 2 sides of a coin. When someone is attractive (which can be through many factors not just looks) their looks become more attractive! As an example I recently was crushing on this guy so hard! And every picture, video I saw of him I was like "what a sex god". Even his flaws were perfect to me and made me like him even better! However later when my crush ended and I now look at him? I still have a fondness for him but I can't believe how I thought he was so hot in looks! I think the term is "rose coloured glasses". It's a real thing 🤣. So.. to answer the question.. I don't think you have an age related change in your opinion or perception on looks. Just what you deem attractive. At 19 I wanted a man who looked like he could take care of me. My needs were a strong fatherly man who could one day be a good father. Now, at 44, I still want a man who looks like he can take care of me. But his mind, kindness, loyalty as well as passion, positivity, confidence will be attractive to me. And so in turn HE will become better looking in my eyes. Dating apps are however making it really hard for people of any age to see beyond superficial looks.

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[Anonymous]

I feel like it became more important the older I got

[IslaTheWitch]

Looks have never been important to me