Does treating women like shit work?

[Anonymous]

When it comes to dating, I know women will say it doesn't and that no girl wants to date an asshole. But i can't help but notice that a lot of the men women date act like assholes and dont care about the womem that much but still get attention and have women chasing them

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Well if you think about it like that it's certainly not going to work.

Men who get woman from "treating them like crap" understand power dynamics.

A guy who looks from the outside and just sees a dude being a dick and tries to immatate it will always fail because for it to work, you need to establish some kind of rapport first and the things the guy chooses to be a "dick" over are all based on her.

Try to focus on just talking to woman without fucking them first. You CANNOT get laid if you hate or don't minimally understand woman, you have to love them.

Think about the stereotypical woman who hates men, what's that relationship usually look like, if they can ever even get into one.

[DarkWinterNights]

Treating them like shit gets you damaged women and a toxic relationship. You need to be stoic and slightly mysterious, but not cringe. Show a little interest but not too much emotion. They want someone who can be an asshole, and can be “dangerous”, but not to them.

[Rosexøxø]

My husband never treated me like “shxt” and if he had I wouldn’t be with him.

Try to see it from a perspective of a lady you admire or love like a mother sister or other. Would you want their partner to treat them like shxt?

Try replacing woman with human and ask yourself if treating a human like shxt “works.”


Those rude guys you see are bad examples and it’s not their interaction but the female’s personal beliefs that are just untrue about herself.

[Asker]

I wouldn't be asking if i didn't see a pattern

[Rosexøxø]

You may see a pattern but you are asking how to treat a human without understanding of them in particular and what they’re thinking feeling or reasoning to be behaving as they do or did. Just like “all guys are different/ no guy is the same.” All girls are different and no girl is the same.

You may see a pattern. The whole world is full of em and scientists and marketing teams love some of them, but this is hardly an option or method. If you think it is… I want nothing to do with knowing of your endeavors and choices. You’re a grown man. All I know is it it gets

Mentally abusive

Physically abusive

Toxic

You should be handled accordingly as well. That’s what I think.

Sorry you in particular haven’t had lucky outcomes with females and you think you have to resort to that. If I could meet each one you interact with here on and decide to be a shxt bag to.. I’d try to warn them and steer them clear of that.

I think a bag of shxt is wrong for anyone. Guy or girl.

[urpinkerthanbarbie]

No it doesn’t work. Girls can be hooked from a man, but it’s because they like the chase, not the treatment. But they “stay” because we accept the love we THINK we deserve. If a girl has a low self esteem, they’ll think that bad treatment is what they deserve or could ever have. Be yourself.

[Bricealan]

Never one to do any such crap, but some women either are too afraid to fight or for some reason put up with it.

Stuck my neck out and risked getting killed sticking up for a battered women (twice) but from what I see these women go back time after time for the same treatment. '

Probably would do it again, but the risk is not worth it if the woman stays with this kind of man.

[lorenzomichael]

Yes and no. Listen they like bad boys and being with them. It gives them a sense of excitement to be with somebody who doesn't give a shit. One who hates authority and who does what he likes, and he don't give a fuck about your feelings. Don't get it twisted bad boys are assholes. But we're never dicks. We know how to be nice, but we rarely show that side of us. Nice guys finish last

[Amara_09]

You treat me like shit and I will really work on your ass

[Asker]

Cool

[RavenDarkheart]

Not with me, I’m not going to deny that some girls it does seem to work. I understand that as little as you do.

[Asker]

Some? It works with a lot of girls. a lot of girls like toxic guys

[DarkWinterNights]

It’s a pretty base instinct. If you have a degree of emotional intelligence and maturity you can see through it pretty easily.

[RavenDarkheart]

Ok, not like I keep stats, all I know is I am NOT one it works on.

[Asker]

Rare commodity

[Anonymous]

They absolutely love it.. I met a girl a little while ago and she always talked about her ex boyfriends treating her like crap but she was loyal and tried to make it work... I get with her and treat her like gold and how does she thank me... she cheats on me a few months in.. so after that I treat them like garbage and they are so much better girlfriends..

I learned through experience...

[Phoenix98]

In a ideal world I'd say no but sadly there are women out there who are into that and ones who have that I can fix him mentality.

[Asker]

Where did this i can change a man mentality come from?

[Phoenix98]

who knows maybe it stems from their more nurturing aspect?

[FunkyMonkee]

Sure looks that way! From what I've seen the past 3 or 4 decades, NEARLY ALL women want to date assholes and go out of their way to hunt them down!

[yulbsari]

Unfortunately, it's quite effective with many women. I have had some women tell me that they question a guy's manhood if he doesn't handle them this way. Women like this will provoke you to mistreat them.

[Altheavas]

I don’t know dude, but that won’t work with me! 😮‍💨

[Asker]

You're an older woman so of course it won't work

[Altheavas]

😭😭😭😂

[serious]

I think it would depend on the woman but according to me mostly that will not work. At least not in the long run

[jaskin777]

Exactly.
I agree with u but treating women like shit doesn't work but at the same time it vice versa to the woman shouldn't treat the man like shit either

[Billlewis]

I doubt it, but it definitely works when they treat me like shit... lol

[brightpapaya]

You'd have to be into extremely insecure/immature girls for it to work.

[MissBoogus]

My boyfriend said last night that he noticed he gets a lot more interest when he treats women like he doesn’t give a f 😂

[Asker]

And know that other girls want him, turns you on

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be that black and white about it. But in a roud-a-bout way, yes. Women want to earn your approval. So withholding it, and rationing it with her works. But she has to have at least some interest in you to begin with.

[Minahh]

A lot of women have trauma, low self esteem and self respect that's why they attract assholes - not really their fault it stems from childhood

[Asker]

You can't blame a guy for adapting to the system

[Todd9612]

Sadly enough this is true, women always want what they think they cannot have. That is 100% fact.

[Zestyassmf1997]

No. However I’d discourage any man from behaving like a pushover or a doormat.

[DextroShade]

Most modern women are shit and deep down they know it.

[gorydetails]

No, it doesn't. Not putting up with their shit works better.

[dudeinohio]

It's true. Both my sisters and one ex girlfriend all were with abusers.

[Anonymous]

That only works with women who have a list of their own problems. It dosen't work with decent women who are worth being with. If you want a toxic, unhealthy relationship tho go for it

[Roudyrebel8]

No... No one deserves to be treated like shit

[midnightmoon05]

Try it, let us know how it goes. 😊

[msmissydc]

But then he will come back saying women dont want him because of his small dick or height... I dont think people like this can see correlations that well.

[midnightmoon05]

@msmissydc hehehee I know. I am just having fun here.

[msmissydc]

I may be confused about the order of the stages but there is also the 1. incel women are at fault for the dating market.
2. Women only want money and I dont have it. 3. I am going to china because western women dont want me.
4. I am back they dont want me either.
5. How can I earn more money so I can pay whores like the 'dating choaches'
6. Women are all about money.

[Asker]

Andrew tate is awesome

[fuddly]

In a way yes, because if you don't stand up for yourself you will be walked all over

[DaBiggestBird]

Only the intellectually challenged or broken ones

[electromagnetic]

It doesn’t work.

[Asker]

You're older so this makes sense

[electromagnetic]

If anything, I think the newer generation does not take kindly to such behaviour.

[Asker]

Its? gotten worse with thr advent of social media

[FenixG45]

Apparently, it does for some guys. Somehow