I have this friend who sometimes flirts with me but shrugs it off as platonic and I think it’s because we work together. We play argue a lot and I feel like it builds up tension and we’ve also drunkenly kissed 4 times. I initiated because I was celebrating something but she said she didn’t think I meant anything by it and it was platonic. She’s casually touched me a lot and she’ll also linger over her shift over 35 minutes just to talk to me. Also lately it feels like she’s been trying to keep our text convos going. I’ve had this long term interest in this lesbian for a while now and think she could be interested and I always talk about her around my friend. My friend and i are both bisexual girls. Anyways whenever I bring up this lesbian crush I feel like it gets weird. Last week we were talking about a trip she took where she hooked up with some people and then I was talking about how hot the lesbian was and lesbians in general because the convo segued into it and my friend was like “I’m going to a music festival in 3 months with friends”. My friend is seeing a guy right now from out of town and has been sleeping with him and today was telling me how she wanted to spend Saturday with him since he had a hotel so I feel like she has no right to any kind of judgment in my love life. Today I brought up how excited I was to be invited to an old classmates birthday and that I was hoping the lesbian girl would be there since they know each other. My friend right after was like “that’s so cute it’s a tea party” then I said how my old classmate was going to help set me up with the lesbian and my friend was like “is she really?” Then I said I was hoping she would and immediately after my friend was like “oh I have to tell you some tea. My ex texted me”. Why would she say this right after I talked about my lesbian crush and plus her ex always texts her lol.
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Does my friend actually want to secretly date me?
