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Profile of a guy I met on a dating app
“Don’t know what I am looking for.”
“Want children someday”
”Laid-back guy who doesn’t take life too seriously.”
We’ve been texting for 3 weeks everyday, sending voice messages, good morning and good night texts, talk about our days.
Is he interested in something serious? I am looking for a relationship.
Sounds like he's not sure if he wants a relationship or not. Not that he's against relationships, he's just not sure.
By saying this, he is also allowing women who just want to have fun, and maybe sex, to contact him... he might be open to that.
You have a nice start. Why not meet fir a first date, and take it from there.
it means he is either not really decisive person and takes life as it is or he doesn't want to admit what he wants cause thats too private. Dont trust anything a man says unless he says about his intentions like he is not looking for anything serious and is only here for sex. But the rest, whatever else he says how he is laid back etc, dont belive his opinions of himself or what he is capable of. You do your opinion of him ysf and trust that. The only ways to find out how he really is is to meet him in rl and see, so i suggest you do that asap. You also should ask him weather he is open to serious relationship to not waste your time. I ended talks just cause of talking about ig topics like that, if you want kids and he says he doesn't its time to move on.
It means he is NOT looking for a relationship. I hope you are not hoping for something more with this guy, guys who don't know what they want are the worst and most dangerous ones. A fuck boy will at least be honest, the 'not sure what I want' will drain you out of all your energy by trying to figure him out, which will never happen. Their decision making is based on instant gratifications, and even if he miraculously decides to have a relationship with you it will be based on a chemistry/fun which will fade for eventually and then he will ghost.
Sounds like a copy and paste generic profile, though that seems to contradict the fact that he wants to have kids, so clearly he does know what he's looking for.
Women used to do "I like to read, travel, and go on adventures," or put "chill vibes" in their bios. I should've kept a tally of how many of those I saw...
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u It is a non-committed statement which allows him to exit the relationship at any time without guilt.
That is most young people these days. I would believe them.
that's his way of telling you beforehand that he wants to use you he wants to fuck you he wants to take you out have sex with you and then he'll make up his mind if he likes you or what but it usually means he's just looking for some fun
Meet up with him and see what you think afterwards. You need to figure out if there is personal chemistry anyway.
I've only been in 3 long relationships. Two 3 year relationships and one 1 year relationship. And I've always dated with the intention to find someone I want to marry. But on my dating profiles I always put "not sure what I'm looking for" as the option because I'm jusy going with the flow and I've noticed that even though some people say "not looking for anything serious" or "something casual", if they're with the right person, they'll want to settle. If he puts doesn't know what he's looking for it just means if you're the girl that makes him want to settle, he'll settle. And if you're a girl that just makes him want to have fun, then you're that girl.
Unsure of whether they want a fling, a short term or long term relationship or friends with benefits. Maybe they're just looking to see how they mesh with someone first. Sometimes, even people that think they want a one thing, end up doing something totally different. One of my uncles thought they wanted friends with benefits but, eventually got married to her.
He’s open to what happens. I have that on my bio because I’m honestly not sure what I want. But after meeting someone I’ll get an idea of whether I want to continue seeing them or not. I would be ok with a casual relationship, short term or long term.
I would say he isn't looking for anything specific right now. It means he keeps his options open, but it also means he probably won't push anything, so the whole effort probably will have to be on your side...
Means he has little to no standards, takes little to no responsibilities for actions ("doesn't take life too seriously"), and he'll "get involved" whatever comes his way.
In short he's looking for cheap easy sex.
As for the line about wanting kids... well there's plenty of men (encouraged mind you by cheap women) who yeah will have kids someday... with as many women who'll fall for their dumbass pickup lines and not comprehend what birth control is.
Just take what he says on face value and don't over think it until you actually meet , he is a young guy , his thinking is logical.
I may mean, he doesn't know how to verbalize what he wants but he will know it when he sees it. It could also mean, he wants to get into your pants but doesn't want to scare you away but telling you that you are are okay to FK but you are not good enough for a serious relationship. Also, he also doesn't want to flat out lie with a commitment that he knows he would never honor.
No idea what it means. Usually if someone doesn't know what they want, they are just playing the field. Not fully ready to commit to something. It sounds like you are getting on well, but these days you never know.
Means he dont know what he wants sounds like he will take either
Either A. They want to make it look like they're open for a relationship when actually all they want is sex. Same goes for people who say they want a 'short term relationship'. Or B. They're trying out the dating scene without a lot of expectations. Might find love, might find hook-up, they're just willing to see where things go.
From my experience, you should definitely stick to people who know what they want
9/10 not looking for a relationship. I’d suggest asking what is he looking for directly / is he open looking for a relationship, and see if he wanna take you on a date. I’d say when there’s no dates, it’s just empty words. Pics/texts/calls/videos are nice, but nothing is genuine until you meet them in-person to know the real them when it’s from a dating app.
Don’t know what I am looking for = not willing to put in the effort for a healthy relationship
Want children someday = wants kids in 8 - 16 years
Laid-back guy who doesn’t take life too seriously = Immature guy who has no interest in leveling up life, career, social obligations. This guy is probably not saving for retirement/ a down payment on a house.
He’s not looking for anything serious. It sounds like he’s not ready to make major commitments in his life and still in the “party and have fun” phase.
Unless you’re looking for no commitments from him and just have fun (nothing wrong about that) then I’d move to the next guy.
I always took it as a more vague and "polite" way or saying, "I don't know if I want a relationship per say, but I wouldn't mind having some fun".. Maybe for them if a relationship comes out of it.. Good if not onto the next..
Beware: Commitment may not be in his vocabulary.
"Would be happy with no strings attached sex but would prefer a relationship of 3 months or longer as well."
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