Why would he ghost me after finding out I got 4 brothers?

[Anonymous]

We're 5 siblings and I'm the youngest (age 29) and the only girl. My brothers' ages are 40, 38, 37 and 34. They used to take turns taking care of me when I was a baby; even argued with each other about it, lol.

I was went out on a date for nearly 2 weeks. We were getting along good but then on chat, when I mentioned about having 4 brothers and being the only girl in the family, he ghosted me. Why?

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+1 y

While my brothers can be protective (it's only natural), I got my own life and they're ok with it. So it's no problem. They're down-to-earth, easy to get along with.

[Anonymous]

If a man is looking to use you, isn't genuine or is hiding something. He will run if he hears you have 4 brothers. Some even have an issue with just 1 brother so 4x would have been a problem. But a genuine man that has no ill intention would be less likely to see that as an issue. Or it could have been something else, who knows.

[boggboss]

Why do u think it was the fact that u had brothers ehy he ghosted

[Asker]

On the chat, he asked me if I had siblings and after mentioning I had 4 brothers, he only replied with an ''oh'' and then ghosted me. Before that, we would chat back and back a lot.

[boggboss]

Pretty odd maybe he thought it would be too much work gaining their trust so he gave up

[laly520]

probably he thought ur brothers r too overprotective n would annoy him

[Likes2drive]

He probably felt threatened, because big brothers are very protective over their sisters

[Asker]

While there is definitely a lot of truth to that, they are easy to get along with if the guy really cares about me or loves me. He would really have to be up to no good or trying to harm me... then yeah all of them are going to come after him. But otherwise, they're calm, down-to-earth.

[Likes2drive]

He wouldn’t get to know them because he would think most big brothers would just try to find some reason to break you up. But I agree he would have to be up to no good for that to happen but who knows maybe he’s seen a lot of movies like that

[Zestyassmf1997]

I don’t think it was that.

[Asker]

Then what can it be? We were chat alright, replying back and forth. Ever since mentioning having for 4 brothers when he asked me if I had siblings, he only replied with an ''oh'' and then ghosted me

[Zestyassmf1997]

Oh, so he replied. What did you say when he said “oh”?

[Asker]

I told him how growing up, it be tough at times being the only girl. Then I asked him the same question. He never replied back.

[Zestyassmf1997]

Hm…did he leave you on read?

[Asker]

yes he read my message, was online and just never replied back... it's been already more than a week since he isn't replying.

[Zestyassmf1997]

I dunno. People be weird like that.

[Asker]

true.. weird
If I wasn't interested in someone I would say that. I find ghosting immature and rude.