Why would he have ghosted me?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy when he was a delivery driver to a shop where I used to work. We used to message on WhatsApp and flirt when he delivered to work. One day he hadn’t messaged for a while so I asked if he was going to stay in touch he said that he couldn’t and that it was complicated. I accepted that I probably wouldn’t hear from him again. During Covid I went onto Snapchat and he’d sent me a message so we started up the messaging again but he’d only message me on Snapchat. We used to message and flirt and other stuff but eventually again the messsages dried up and eventually they stopped! Why did he ghost me and he obviously wasn’t honest with me!

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey that's so wack, I hate when people aren't straight up. My best guess is he probably had a girl already that he wasn't tryna mess things up with. Delivery guys are always on the road meetin different chicks, ya know?

Maybe he was tryna juggle you and her at first but then she found out or got suspicious so he had to cut you off. Or maybe SHE was the complicated one and didn't want him talkin to other girls. Girls be crazy controlling sometimes!

Could also be he just wasn't really feelin it with you long term and didn't wanna say it to your face. Guys a wimp for not bein real though.

I'd say just forget about him, dude ain't worth your time if he's gonna play games. Plenty more fish and all that. Don't stress it, move on to someone who treats you right and isn't shady from jump. This fool did you a favor showin his true colors in the end.

[spartan55]

What was he dishonest about?

[Asker]

About why he couldn’t keep in touch!