Why would he ghost me?

[Anonymous]

I met up with a guy from a dating app. It went pretty well. The next day I texted him that it went well and we should hang out again. He immediately said yes. And then I said for him to just let me know when he’s free but he never responded.

Then about a week later I asked for his snap so we could talk outside of the app, and he gave it to me. But then he never really accepted my request (either he just declined or accepted and then removed me - I just can’t really tell on snap but when I search his name in Add Friends it says I can snap him but he’s not on my friends list lol). And then the next day he unmatched with me on the app.

I’m not interested anymore/sorta hurt/angry, but I just want to know why he ghosted me? Was he just wanting something more casual/looking for hookups? Or was it my fault somehow?

[Anonymous]

Honestly this is a downside with the scam that is dating apps. People have access to a plethora of men/women, so if it’s not quite clicking with one person, they can block, delete and move on, with no real emotion behind it. Especially if it’s only been a month or just a few weeks, days, one date, etc., in that time you guys are essentially strangers, and he doesn’t owe you anything, like closure or an explanation rather than ghost. It can suck but only when you’ve romanticized their potential without them even earning such emotions like hurt and anger. I’d advise not over-investing before there’s real cause to. Especially when he isn’t actively showing consistency and genuine interest, how this guy seemed to.

[Anonymous]

He likely lost interest or might of had a girlfriend.

[Pinay_ako]

He’s just not into you. Move on

[Guy13]

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