Girls, is it easy for you to let someone who loves you down? Can you reject him without hurting him?

[Light_beam]

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

It’s very difficult for me to hurt people… It hurts me to do that. But I am caught up in the pattern where I end up hurting people I care for.

Mainly because I almost always pull away emotionally at some point, when the another party is already invested…

I don’t want to do it…

It hurts me to do it.

But every time I’ve hurt someone I’ve hurt myself too. I hate that feeling.

[Light_beam]

Wow , looks like that happened with you a lot.. why do i have the feelings that most girls don't care and some of them actually likes to hurt the guy.. boosts a lot their feminine ego!

[MemeSupreme]

no that shit isn't easy bc it's awkward and knowing our friendship is ruined kinda sucks. i hope i can do it without hurting him but that kinda depends on he takes it

[ChefPapiChulo]

Wow what an ego!

[MemeSupreme]

how is that an ego lol

everyone reacts to shit differently so like if im nice and he's still hurt then nothin i can do

[ChefPapiChulo]

I'm just teasing you. But you're acting like you're hot shit! Which you are, but whatever.

[Light_beam]

@MemeSupreme Are you in this situation now?

[MemeSupreme]

nah im not

[Light_beam]

Ahh your photo is soo freaky ! Why would you do that to yourself?

[MemeSupreme]

oh i make all my selfies on here look goofy lol it makes me me laugh

[Light_beam]

God, it will cause me night mares 😔

[Jennz6]

It hurts both of us

[Light_beam]

Have you had to do it? Let someone down?

[Jennz6]

@Light_beam yes, I left him for a woman

[Light_beam]

Well, it hurts less i guess to leave for a woman 😀