Yip, doesn't bother me one bit
Nope, it makes me feel so guilty
Only if I don't know him
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No I feel guilty as hell.. even though I know he will be fine and I don't owe him a yes. But rejection never feels good, so I know I'm making a person feel bad by rejecting him which makes me uncomfortable. I tend to overthink everything in life so I overestimate the impact my rejection makes just so I can beat myself up about it. Despite my discomfort, I am direct about it and don't make up a boyfriend or something. I say I'm not interested and go on with my day feeling bad about that 💀
Depends on the guy and the approach. If the guy is cheating, or wants me to cheat, NOPE, no guilt whatsoever. If we're both available, then I respect that he was brave enough to ask and feel a little guilty, but the feelings have to go both ways.
I only reject guys that do not deserve me or that approach me when I’m taken so I feel no guilt cause if they are righteous, I will not reject them.
If I don't like him and he just has a crush on me, yes and he should move on to someone that wants him. If he has feelings for me then I will feel sorry for him but I'll still say no if I don't feel the same way.
I wear a fake wedding ring so that I can just pretend I'm married.
I've had guys get violent or stalk me even after a polite rejection so I'm scared of being approached in person now, especially if it's someone I don't know.
I rejected this one guy I know and i was so mean and feel bad about it he asked me and i said i'd never ever like you then walked away
I always try my best to turn them down nicely. But if they persist even after rejecting them then I just simply ignore the hell out of them leave them on read or block them.
Yes and it makes it easier for me because I'm lesbian.
No. I don’t like hurting people.
I feel so bad for hurting his feelings
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