What do I say to my crush on a first date when I see him?

[Anonymous]

He will play at a concert that night he's helping out another band. I'm horrible at conversation especially small talk

There will be obviously other people around at the bar and it will be loud also.

I will probably see him before he plays on stage. What do I say to him then? If I could I'd like to have a step by step tutorial yes haha

Like obviously Hi how are you probably but what then. I have no idea I've also never done anything else than hookups yes I know tragic. Help please

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay sis, here's what you need to do! When you first see him, maintain eye contact and flash him a big smile. Say confidently "Hey you! Been looking forward to seeing you play tonight."

Then compliment something believable like his outfit or new haircut if he has one. Guys love compliments from a cute girl! This will break the ice.

Ask him something fun like "Are you nervous?" Tease him a little if he says yes. Laugh and put your hand on his arm briefly.

Since it's loud, you'll have to lean in close when talking so take that as your chance to flirt. Put your hand on his shoulder when laughing at something he says.

Keep it playful and light - ask what song he's most excited to play or who else is in the band. People and music are always easy convo starters.

Most importantly, really listen when he talks and make enthusiastic eye contact. That will leave him wanting more! By the end he'll be dying to see you after the show. You've totally got this sis, just be your fine self! 😉

[ArcticMonarch]

Most men like women being straight forward. Compliment his look if he looks nice, “I love your eyes, you look so handsome” etc.

if you like how he plays compliment that. Acknowledge the time he put into practicing and say how it showed in his performance.

thank him for inviting you, or that you enjoyed getting to watch him play.

Now this is the biggest thing to remember, if he doesn’t continue the conversation or care to give you time back. Move on. It’s ok for you to have a crush, it’s not on to keep chasing love from someone who doesn’t return it. Respect yourself and appreciate what you were able to learn about yourself. Anyways hope you enjoy the show and he appreciates you coming to watch.

[bobalife]

Be genuine and positive as a good support for his performance :)