Guys, would you be scared to date/ be intimate with a woman who was r*ped before?

[Livianezob]

[ManOnFire]

I have already been in a relationship with a former rape victim. There was nothing scary about it. But what I can say is that what she went through probably explains why she was the way she was. And probably still is.

[normalice]

There are a lot of traumas in the world. I don't necissarily reject anyone for any of them but some people require a lot more attention than others with the same trauma. I have limits in how much attention I'm willing to pay a person but otherwise there aren't any issues.

[OlderAndWiser]

I would probably be more cautious approaching her and making sure that she wanted sex before I started fondling her in any way.

(It is okay to say rape and sex on this site.)

[Avicenna]

No, as long as she was OK with being intimate.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Depends on how well she's worked through it. If she's likely to burst into tears and lock herself in the bedroom every time we have sex, not so much. If she just doesn't want me to call her a slut, sure whatever.

[Berethor]

Seems like too much baggage to me. I pefer a woman that never been with other man.

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[HighValue]

Unless there is actual real evidence that she told the truth, I would think she was lying and falsely accused the guy, which is very common, and i wouldn't be interested in her, even as friends.

[Drew-1990]

Scared is not the right word. I could be with her but after something like that I don't think I could ever initiate it. I would have to do it based on her time

[aceleon]

one of that, just be disgusted like i would be disgusted about every girl who fucked another guy.

[SolitarySolace]

Yes because she would be far more likely to falsely accuse of rape.

[Maneuquiverharder]

No because understanding it and what happened and then dealing positively think it would work out

[JayBones]

Yeah, a little. That's not the kind of thing that can happen and not cause lots of issues.

[DextroShade]

Not necessarily, as long as she wasn't broken by it.

[1User12345]

Sure she doesn't deserved it anymore than anyone else my first cousin who is very beautiful was at ETSU never caught the animal

[Sabretooth]

No. Though, their emotional scars from it could cause concerns over intimacy later. Not their fault, but that is a factor.

[Anonymous]

Any woman who claims she was raped is hard pass.

[ChicoFromThe305]

No I've dated a rape victim and I'd do it again

[Yannae]

Why would I be scared?

[888theGreat]

I don't know , never had that situation

[Twalli]

No, it may just take more time.

[Anonymous]

How did I find out?

[eagle1951]

no and have been with 3 who were

[riverrat3]

I would be concerned about triggers

[dudeinohio]

Nope