Guys, be honest, are you scared to talk to women?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yes, because I don't know what to say

No, because I'm confident, and competent, when it comes to that

Yes, because I don't think they will like me

Other

[FilmGuy93]

Not scared. I just don't feel like putting the effort most of the time.

[Anonymous]

Define scared. I'll talk to any woman, any time, about anything. But what is the utility of it? Most "talking" to women is an interview where they don't have the courtesy to tell you you didn't get the job but because you've been down this road many times you know the next part "we'll keep your application on file in case a position opens up". The worst part? You don't even know if they hiring. They might just be giving interviews just for thier own amusement. After all, most women are businesses that don't feel the need to produce anything.

So to answer your question, scared? No. I just simply don't see the utility most time. But what do I know. I'm a man. In most women's eyes if you're a guy with boundaries and standards it's just easier to say "he has no confidence" rather than face the harsh reality that he has confidence, he just sees a rigged game that even if you win has no prize at the end.

[MageSage]

Yes and no.

Yes, because it has become increasingly difficult to not say the wrong thing when it comes to a man talking to a woman, and any word uttered could be taken the wrong way.

No, because at this point, I've given up on talking to women in a pursuing/conversational sense. I know this might be the worst move to make, but when a man can get a charge for just saying a woman looks nice, it seems like times have changed, and flirting is dead.

[kramchancel]

I can talk to older women just fine. But when it comes to someone around my age, I just feel like they are going to take advantage of me. Besides why bother when more often than not, I'm the only one who keeps engaging

[NostalgiaSenpi]

No, but after so many rejections, it's a waste of time. I already know the answer will be no.

[kramchancel]

I hear you dude. Like im not happy but im also not overtly sad. Wasting my time only to be rejected is much worse and loads of days wasted trying to get my mental health back. So I decided fck it.

[TrillXHippy]

Someone mentioned “false allegations” so if that’s the case yes I am scared of talking to women.

[Anonymous]

Men should be afraid to talk to women, since most have proven they can and will destroy a mans life with false allegations if she doesn’t like him.

[NathanDavis]

no, they're just women

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Did you have success overall? Like we're they nice, did you flirt?

[NathanDavis]

96% of the women I've talked to were for the most part nice, yes...

did I flirt with them? no, I never flirt with people lol... I wouldn't even know how to start doing that, I just am myself

as for success, not sure what you mean there... successful at what exactly?

[Jmmmfi4]

Yes definitely

[SnowedIn]

Not a bit.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes.

[clampfan101]

Mostly A.