What do I do? Should I confess my feelings?

[Anonymous]

I like this guy in my class, he's funny but his friend told me he has a crush on another girl. I can't get over him though. I don't know if I should confess since we are about to graduate.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn, that really sucks you're going through that. High school can be so drama filled with crushes and relationship stuff. I know it's not easy but if you really like this guy, I'd say you gotta take a chance and tell him how you feel. Even if his friend says he likes someone else, friends can be wrong sometimes and spread rumors without knowing for sure how someone really feels deep down.

I'd try talking to him some more one on one if you can, maybe try hinting around that you like him without fully confessing yet. See how he reacts and if he gives you any signals that he might be into you too. That could give you a better idea of where he's really at before you fully put your heart out there. If after spending some more time with him you really think there could be something there, I'd say go for it and tell him before it's too late.

I know it's scary but you don't want to always wonder "what if" after graduation if you don't take a chance. And even if he doesn't feel the same way, at least you tried and you'll know for sure. That way you won't be left regretting not speaking up. He might surprise you too and feel the same. You won't know unless you try. I know it's a risk but that's just part of liking someone. Good luck, I hope it all works out for you! Let me know what you decide to do.

[Summeroflove]

A crush isn’t a relationship. Yea! Tell him. Just go for it. Worst case scenario is if you are rejected. You can move on and not waste time on a guy who wouldn’t approach you.

[slatyb]

Just invite him to lunch or coffee or dinner. Forget what his friend told you. Just ask for what you want.

[laly520]

go for it