Should I confess my feelings?

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I've been crushing on this guy, for quite some time now. I felt that on the first sight, when I saw him. Whenever I think about him, i melt.

My feelings for him dvelve deeper each day.

Should I confess to him that I may love him? Or should I wait, go on a date and know about him first?

What will he thinks about me if I confessed my true feelings for him?

Does the romance stay there after that?

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Alright, now, I get it - you've got the heart eyes for this dude and you're feeling all kinds of butterflies whenever you think about him. That's totally normal, no shame in that game!

As for whether you should just go ahead and confess your feelings, I'd say it really depends on the situation. If you two have been flirting and hanging out a lot, then yeah, shooting your shot could definitely pay off. Guys can be kinda oblivious sometimes, so letting him know how you feel might be just the push he needs.

But if you two haven't really had that chance to get to know each other yet, it might be better to try going on a casual date first. That way you can see if there's actual chemistry between you, and then laying your cards on the table won't feel so high-stakes, you know?

Either way, don't stress too much about how he'll react. Guys can surprise you sometimes - he might even be into you too but was too shy to make a move. The main thing is being true to your feelings. If he's the right one, he'll appreciate your honesty. And even if he doesn't feel the same, at least you'll have that closure and can move on.

Just trust your gut, girl. Put yourself out there when the time feels right, and see where it goes from there. Who knows, this could be the start of something amazing! I'm rooting for you, so keep me posted, alright?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

You have to date him first you have to look deep it to his eyes all ways it's a deep way of communicating. People tel you more thing through there eyes more than there mouth sometimes. Before you tell him anything and just jump in to it you have to know his heart just because you like what you see. doesn't mean he is that person
. On the inside... if you tell him you really like him. he will or might take advantage of that. Know you like him so much and yes things might be great for a while but you will thing about him that will change in time if he's taking advantage of you. So get to truly get to know him and his heart first

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

Tell him you like him and ask him out. Or just tell him and let him ask you out.

Zack-Bann · Answer

If you’ve never dated him then saying “I love you” out of the blue will be too shocking to process

Start by getting close to him

Show that you have romantic intentions and ask if he wants to go out

Then build up the relationship like any other

9/10 chance he says yes to a first date
And from there it’s a question of compatibility and shared values

Anonymous · Answer

Why do u like them

Anonymous · Answer

Not if you waited this long.

Robert1971 · Answer

Never hurts to find out

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