Why did he ask this after sex? This is only our fourth date. Why is my date becoming ruder?

[Lalalove11]

He asked 'what was that?' (referring to sex) And I asked him what he meant but he didn't answer. I was being slightly louder than usual but not crazy or anything. It made me feel insecure 😅 he was also being ruder this time and wasn't mannerly. I found it a huge turn off. Asking me to do stuff without saying please, to turn up TV, to stir the food. I just felt bossed around to be honest. He made some breakfast and asked me to butter the toast while he made eggs. Then he said 'dont eat both' (slices of toast) and I felt quite embarrassed. I wasn't going to but the way he said it was rude.

[Anonymous]

If I gave you the means to begin an entire new generation and create a family. I stored it in a gold box but gave it away for free to a random person. Would they still cherish that box? Would they respect the person that gave it to them?

[Lalalove11]

It was foolish of me to give it away so soon, I'll acknowledge that. Though I still here of relationships working when having sex on the second date , it's probably unusual I don't know.

[Opinion Owner]

The exception is never to be relied upon. You said you gave it up too soon. But what you should ask yourself is why you wold give it up at all even after a longer time of dating. We have all been programmed to ignore the purpose of sex and focus only on the pleasure. That is how the enemy moves and this is why so many women end up unhappy. This is almost exclusively only noticed when they get older. My 50 year old friend wishes she could turn back the clock in that respect.

[bowenw]

That is very strange behavior. If he does it again I would consider moving on without him.

[Lalalove11]

The lack of manners absolutely. If it's this bad early on it will probably get worse. He comes from Mexico and I'm Irish. We have quite different backgrounds.

[bowenw]

I agree if someone treats you like that in the dating stage when they should be trying to impress you, it would only get worse if it became a serious long-term relationship.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't think he's meaning to be rude it's just the honey moon phase is over. He's just more comfortable with you. Just tell him how you feel and see if it changes he might not know how he's made you feel

[Lalalove11]

Four dates , we haven't even had our honey moon phase😅 I still feel I barely know him. While he was cooking he wasn't talking. Is that a male thing? He was barely asking me questions or anything.

[Alwayreckles93]

See this is what happends when woman live a worldly lifestyle and dont oray to the Lord for a husband she isn't married she has no business having sex in the first place.

[QuietRunner]

time to go he seems bored with you

not respectful either

[Lalalove11]

I guess. Yeah ouch I don't know what I did wrong. He still wants to meet 😭

[QuietRunner]

he wants more sex

[Lalalove11]

True. I just wonder why he asked 'what was that' after. So strange

[QuietRunner]

@Lalalove11
maybe he thought the orgasm was different

[Lalalove11]

Hopefully 😂

[Lalalove11]

He texted asking how was my day and he had fun last night. Should I confront and nip it in the bud

[QuietRunner]

@Lalalove11
if it bothers you yes

[msc545]

ask him, not us.

[Lalalove11]

I did and he just said nevermind