Is this guy pretty serious about me?

[barbie2525]

We have been dating 4 months now and it feels like we are both getting strong feelings for each other. On Sunday when I was with him he made a joke saying “well you will have to learn to pull your weight around here if you expect to live here someday”. I took that as implying he could see us living together someday since we haven’t talked about it. He owns his house and I’m currently renting.

Last night we had sex and we cuddled for a long time after. He also put his head on my chest and said it’s so cool how I can hear your heart beat. He said he liked it. We cuddled for quite awhile and he didn’t want me to leave. I had to leave since I had an early morning work day.

Does this seem like this guy sees a serious future or at the very least has caught feelings for me?

[kylee2437]

Do not go off what a guy says, go off by what he does. If you are taking shots based off of what he is saying, that’s not a good sign. I think you need to ask him what he thinks about you, and ask him in a setting where you aren’t physically being intimate with each other.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah, from the sounds of it this guy is definitely catching some serious feelings for you. A few signs that point to it:

- Joking about you living together someday after only 4 months is a big deal. Shows he's thinking long-term.

- Really enjoying cuddling up close and listening to your heartbeat? That's some real intimate, romantic stuff.

- Not wanting you to leave and cuddling for a long time after sex is another sign he was savoring the moment with you.

- Opening up his home to the possibility of you living there when you're officially together is a high level of commitment after a relatively short time dating.

- It's one thing to say you like someone, but it's another to actually SHOW you care through actions like that on the regular. He's showing you where his head's at.

For sure seems like this guy is ready to take things serious with you. His behaviors prove he's caught feelings for real. You must be treating him amazingly well too! Keep doing your thing sis, he's clearly into you. This could definitely be a serious one.

[Abhishek4444]

If he had feelings for you he will marry you and if he doesn't have feelings for you he will use your body and then abandon you so choose wisely with whom you should lose your virginity