Is it okay to be with a man that hits you? ?

[Anonymous]

Am I asking for too much? Should I lower my standards

So I reallly want boyfriend that’s single. Doesn’t cheat generous spoils me and won’t leave me. Medium ugly.

And that alone I feel like stardards are too high.

I feel I have to lower them a bit.

so I may have to be with a man that’s hits me slaps me chokes me.

I’m sure he can still love you and do this id much rather him do this than cheat.

I’ve been cheated on and still can’t get over it. I’ve been slapped and choked and the cheating was wayyy worst. I can get over being slapped.

but besides blck Eyes (which I don’t want. )

what is the real harm besides some bruises and scrapes?

[TonyMetal___86]

A man who loves his wife wouldn't beat her, he protects her and feels safe with him blindly!
I agree with you that if a husband made a mistake by slapping his wife and changed his attitude than it's managable unlike cheating which means the 100% end of a relationship!

Even if he slapped her, it shouldn't be hard which cause her to bleed or black eyes or broken bones, that's savage! I'm talking about a push or just a slap on the face that's all...

In my opinion, cheating and beating aren't allowed between a husband and a wife, only love, cuddles and care are allowed, when feeling angry and reach a point beyond shouting where you feel that you wanna lay a hand than leave to get some fresh air or sit in another room till things calms down than have a proper conversation together...

If you have done something wrong, don't feel ashamed to say sorry and make it up for your other half, that's the sign of power and being strong is to maintain your relationship forever!

[Unit1]

Well what do you think?

Is it better to jump into a big lava pond or drown in ice cold water?

[Blessedme]

Gosh why lowering your standards? It's not okay to be with someone that hits you. I feel sick just reading your post. Are you oky?

[Asker]

Because nobody is perfect and having to search for “this perfection” is going to leave me single and alone forever.

[Blessedme]

Noone s perfect but have some standards to protect yourself. Don't tolerate someone that hits you. Black eye? You almost lost your sight. Fuck being in relationship if you aren't feeling good. Protect yourself against these shit ass people. Have some respect for yourself for God's sake too.

[HelpfulWoman]

The trolling here is so blatant even the blind man can see it.

[AngryCarl]

This has to be a troll.

Whether it is or not there are plenty of guys out there who will love you without beating the living tar out of you.

[_Maya_]

And not even a good or funny troll

[Asker]

They will most likely cheat tho? There’s men who don’t cheat OR hit AND love their partner? Be for real rn. Men that don’t cheat do you know them personally?

[Asker]

@_Maya_ that’s because I’m not joking

[_Maya_]

Okie dokie.

[AngryCarl]

Yes I personally know men who don't cheat or hit their partner. One of them happens to be my brother. What are the odds of that?

[Yannae]

No... That's pretty low standards if you're okay to settle with a man who does that.

[Billlewis]

Hell, no! Kick his ass to the curb.

[Asker]

Why.

[Billlewis]

Because if there's any physical abuse taking place, it should only be in the context of the woman beating the guy's ass, not the other way around.

[dudeinohio]

No. Get away from the abuser.