Is it normal for a guy to hit you sometimes?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

No no no no never never ever if he is allowed to get away with it one time it will never end you need to really walk away because your question needs a tease get you more than 2 * easy probably 5 to 10 times you don't want to be around a person that can lose his control and he has to hit you to make a point or because you pissed him off fuck him fucking in the ass and walk away from him that's not love it's not even close to though you really need to walk away

[t-8900]

Let's make a clear distinction right now. A male that hits a female is not a man and never will be one. They are what we call the nutless wonders. Next if I ever saw a guy put hands on a woman he's going to get his @ss royally beat till he can't get up. Idc how it gets done but it will get done. I don't tolerate that ish in my presence. If they dude hits you he needs to be reported to the police immediately. There is no middle ground on this issue. LEAVE!

[msc545]

T, be careful with the White Knight stuff, please. Guys get killed defending women who don't know them and don't give a shit about them.

[t-8900]

@msc545 its not even white knight stuff, just common decency. not too concerned about getting killed really. If it's my time its my time. this isn't a about man or man v women. I would do this same thing if a random person was attacking a child. For me rising to occasion is just part of being a man. I appreciate your concern though and understand where you're coming from. My conscience just won't allow it.

[msc545]

I understand. I just won't risk my life to save a woman who doesn't know me and under other circumstances wouldn't want to. All those strong, independent women can defend themselves since they keep saying they can.

A child or an animal is a different matter - for them, I would go the distance and take my chances. Be safe my friend.

[t-8900]

@msc545 much appreciated. you do the same.

[msc545]

Roger. will do.

[bunnycluts]

if he likes u ye. signs he likes u: wants to be next to u a lot. touches ur shoulder, eye dialation, responds 2 ur texts right away, gets jealous of other guys, and dis a weird one keeps his legs open, aka for girls to take a peek to see if a worthy mate.


and guys, feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.

[bunnycluts]

if u mean like a pat on the arm hit u or even a playful slap then yes. i think everyone is getting confuzzled on what u meant by hit, explain on HOW he hit u. did he hit u aggressively? if he did stay away from him. if he didn't hit u aggressively then no worries

[Anonymous]

Little playful pushes or smacks on the butt or thighs is what i would call normal. Otherwise, smacks or hard pushes are a big no. Don’t slow someone to hit you.

[lonestar_01]

No! God no! If your boyfriend is doing this seek help immediately! All you need to do is dial 911 or 999, or whatever depending on where you are and get away from him

[The_Maphio]

I don't know, does your father usually slap you across the face for the fun of it?
What kind of question is it?

[dustybiker]

If you have to ask something you already know the answer to you are scared and asking for help. Go and get some help. Everyone deserves to feel safe.

[Vesuvius87]

Outside sparring (I'm into Judo) or a real case of self-defense there is absolutely no reason to get hit. Leave the relationship now.

[Twalli]

That's different it's not hitting it's training.

[Lliam]

Absolutely not! Only an ignorant weakling would do that.
Swatting your ass in a playful manner is different. :-)

[mark000h]

F no. Any guy who hits is a man child pussy. Get away from guys like that. It will only get worse. Any real man protects women, not abuses them.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

…. No it’s not

[ikEVERYTHING]

Playfully little baby smacks on your cheeks when you're looking extra cute, maybe. Tiny arm smacks that feel like a fly flew into you, sure, women do it too. A full on hit, no, that's horrible and you should get evidence and call the police

[FreyaRed]

No. Never allow that. Stockholm syndrome isn't real love.

[AmandaYVR]

No. Never accept this. Tell someone about this. This can't happen.

[BeMuse]

Not unless you are hitting him and you’re both too stupid to leave…

[summiter]

No one should ever hit each other... It is not normal

[jennifer_bloom]

No, it’s not normal at all. You should break up and block their number.

[RobT312]

NEVER EVER NEVER
Call me old fashioned, learned this from my father but guys don’t hit girls

[MJtheCoach]

Can you see the full story just head all the time for no reason I highly doubt that did you pump them up and drove him crazy and keep arguing and nagging him to death?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm sorry this is happening but no guy should hit a girl/woman (( Hugs ))

[Ironic_Method]

Short answer, no

Long answer, noooooooooooooooo.

[exitseven]

No, a guy should never hit a woman. If this guy is hitting you it is abuse.

[Dchrls78104]

Oops, sorry; I almost thought you meant hit ON you. No, my friend, that's not normal. If he hits you:
"Run! Run away and never return!"

[jasco]

You mean flirt or actually hit you? Some guys do tease by hitting girls on the butt but its not something I would encourage even if they know you

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not. That's abuse, and abuse escalates over time. Don't give it that opportunity.

[Twalli]

No. Never, unless it happens by complete accident. I have accidentally hit my girlfriend, but you should leave anyone who hits you on purpose

[Anonymous]

No, never. Any guy on here that said yes should be avoided at all costs.

[AmeerX]

Only if it is something like self defense situation

[Vegasrunner]

Absolutely not. You should not tolerate anyone putting their hands on you.

[Robert123456789]

No violence is terrible and awful especially from someone who is meant to love you

[Wise4myage]

No, that is never normal and you should dump him immediately.

[bamesjond0069]

Open hand if you misbehave a lot. Closed hand or for no reason no way.

[cuzimbored21]

No. If a guy's doing that to you by chance then leave before things potentially escalate.

[TallAnon]

Not at all, unless you hit him first, he has no right and you could report it to the police.

[Waldoe]

Nooooo. it's not normal for ANYONE TO HIT ANYONE... ever

[OddBeMe]

No. Leave him. Document the abuse, take pics of the bruises. And get a restraining order if needed.

[JohnK123]

Depending on the hit. A girl always hits me but it’s playful

[In_Trance]

normal is your perception. If you allow it to happen, it's normal

[Hulk30]

unless you've done somethin that warranted it no maa'm

[TaleTeller]

Run away! Run far away! And be certain to tell someone.

[HawkPerception]

Unless you're into that kinda thing in bed, no.

[DonkeyDan]

Whoa, not ever ok for a guy to hit a girl.

[SnakeBoop]

no. not normal. you already know this/

[Agape93]

No thats not normal, it's abuse and assault.

[lambrini]

And what if she hits me and laughs It off as a joke?

[p043k3j]

@lambrini
Then you need to be the bigger person, do not hit back and strongly set your boundaries. It is not a joke to hit someone when the person on the receiving end is not in on the joke. No one should be hitting each other. It is not a healthy relationship. If a women hits a man, than that men needs to leave her. Same thing for a women. Run away as far as you can , cut all ties and NEVER look back. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect, end of story.

[lambrini]

Yet when women hit men no-one bats an eye but when men do the same it's suddenly a case of domestic abuse and the man is in jail by nightfall.

[FilmGuy93]

That's not normal at all

[HellGeist]

Lmao.

No. Maybe in Saudi Arabia.

[Cubus]

I believe it's not normal.

[msc545]

It is NEVER normal at all.

[Jay3344]

Play hitting is ok, real hitting is not.

[lambrini]

Yes it is, I have often bitch slapped girls.

[LindaT1974]

NO!! It’s never ok for a man to him a woman

[JohnK123]

How about a woman hitting a man?

[LindaT1974]

@JohnK123 nope it’s not ok to hit each other

[JohnK123]

Agreed hahaha

[lambrini]

Why not? Girls hit me why can't I hit them back?

[Anonymous]

No. It's normal to never be hit.

[Lazyrider67]

No, never - dump him, it's unacceptable

[whosnumber1]

um what? are you fucking serious?

[noohair]

No, No, No!!! Never!!!
Get away from him!!!

[Razor8]

That is not normal behavior from a normal person.

[DarkCarousel]

Never.

[lambrini]

Yes it is, why can't I?

[DarkCarousel]

Why CAN you?

[lambrini]

Because I have every right when she's being a dumbass

[DarkCarousel]

You sound really logical, Xper 1. Many blessings on your search for intelligent conversation.

[lambrini]

Yet you clearly don't, Xper 6. Try revising school because you still have a brain of a 10 year old.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Nope it is not.

[AviatorTom]

Nope.

[JosyJosy]

Hit you how?

[BrosephBrostar]

No. It isn't.

[moviedude714]

Get away from him

[Iron_Man]

Yes…

[EaterPeter]

Not normal at all