If a guy is always hitting me, pinching me, poking me, and just in general playfully bothering me?

[buttons]

and he says he doesn't know why but he enjoys bothering me, and it makes him feel good to bother me..what does this mean in a guys opinion? We are both 21 and very good friends, but a long time ago when he liked me I wasn't interested and a few years ago when I liked him he said I'm not his type... when a guy says that can it change?

[carlo_claw]

i love this question because I do it all the time (:

some guys like to do that either

1. to be connected to you and they like making contact with you or

2. they want your attention or they want you to react.

3. they do generally want to annoy you

and yeah a guys point of view about a girl (whether being attracted or in the mind) will change all the time, maybe he has seen you acting differently and he likes it or maybe just grown up abit and his mind has changed about you.

hope this helps

carlo

[smokahontas]

yes it can and he's poking and playing with you like that because he likes you