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Who has it harder when trying to date - women or men? (Page 2)

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  • Pohjolan
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    Yoda Age: 35
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    794 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Statistically men.

    Who has it harder when trying to date - women or men?
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    • Radiate143
      Radiate143
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      Sure the men are single. And those women think that those single men are their boyfriends.

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    • Pohjolan
      Pohjolan
      +1 y

      @Radiate143
      There's a few a delusional ones in there but its likely more the same guy having several friends with benefits:s.

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    • Radiate143
      Radiate143
      +1 y

      Right that's what I'm saying. The guys manipulate the women into committing to them but are committed to the women. So I say women because men are generally very OK with playing a part to extract thats it

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    • Pohjolan
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      @Radiate143
      Manipulate? Most fuckboys I know are 100% open about being fuckboys.

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    • Radiate143
      Radiate143
      +1 y

      I'm not talking about them.

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    • Radiate143
      Radiate143
      +1 y

      I'm talkkng about men who want full relationship benefits with little investment so they use intermittent reinforcement, personal problems and confusion to string the woman along. A lot of men do this.

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  • Anonymous
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    Men, up to a certain age. Young women only have a difficulty with the quality of men they date. Young men have a problem with both quality and quantity. After 35-40, women have it harder.

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  • Anonymous
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    We both face unique challenges, but in all honesty I think men have it a little harder today.

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  • Anonymous
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    Men have it tougher and itโ€™s not even close itโ€™s a landslide for men. Women and girls get courted and pursued.

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  • IDoNotConsent
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    It sucks for women because I don't find them attractive. Whereas guys have it so easy, men are just so hot I don't understand how can you struggle dating when I find you so hot!!!

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
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      That's just a "straight" answer if you find men hot and women ugly. Because it's the other way around for straight men.

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  • Jones_Feb22
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    date men... could not be one person to attached until some life events

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  • LiamJHayden
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    I do not find dating difficult at all so from my perspective women must.

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  • dolemite58
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    Why is this even a question? Thatโ€™s like asking who has an easier time going swimming when every girl grew up with a pool.

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  • Chthou95
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    Men. Men have to have to initiate and do most of the work to keep things rolling. Women just show up.

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  • Slim57
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    Men, women have it made in the dating world pretty much, the guys come to them for them to pick and choose

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  • whistlingwh0res
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    men and women are same. they both look for sugar daddy/mama. so they equally having hard time in real relationship.

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  • universecatdrowning
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    Xper 1 Age: 16
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    both do in their own ways, it's not nearly as black and white as this question suggests

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    • ComteDeSaintGermain
      ComteDeSaintGermain
      +1 y

      No women have it harder. Men are jerks, and they take advantage of women.

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  • Kingofkings1992
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    Lol, this is not even remotely debatable. Without question men

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  • Anonymous
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    Hands down men have a harder time due to women's ridiculously high standards.

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  • CozyCoffin
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    Men. Women can get a date in a snap.

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    • CozyCoffin
      CozyCoffin
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      Granted, the guy may turn out to not be that great or even a loser, but she certainly wouldn't have anywhere near the difficulty many guys deal with.

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    • CozyCoffin
      CozyCoffin
      +1 y

      So many people on here say women. That's a load of shit.

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  • Anonymous
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    Men do thats why prostitutes can earn up to 5-10 thousand a week. Cause men can't get laid.

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  • NathanDavis m
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    inadequate people...

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  • spartan55
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    Master Age: 54 , mho 39%
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    3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Lol 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 is this a serious question?

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  • Katebfun
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    305 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Both. For different reasons.

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  • Yannae
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    646 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Women by default.

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  • Wiredone
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    833 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I think it's equal for both sexes

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  • boobliker
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    men, as women have the item that is needed

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  • KrakenAttackin
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    4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Men by a long shot.

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  • Dongie
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    That's a no competition question.

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  • CVNT5
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    +1 y

    The bois have it harder😔

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  • SUMAIREBRAHIM
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    +1 y
    377 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I think women but
    average men struggle too

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Harder for a man, guys have low standards.

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  • Mediterraneansoul
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    Xper 6 Age: 39
    +1 y

    Is that wven a question 🤔

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  • Anonymous
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    (18-24)
    +1 y

    Maybe guys but I don't know for sure

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  • Anonymous
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    Definitely men.

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  • Anonymous
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    Men definitely get harder

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  • elizamichale1
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    985 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I think men

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  • Sameone
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    +1 y

    Bother of them

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  • sirderpsalot123
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    +1 y
    1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Men.

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  • In_Trance
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    15K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Equal

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  • Guido
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    321 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Men by a landslide.

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  • Amur8711
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    +1 y
    530 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Men!

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  • Bklynbadboy12
    Bklynbadboy12 Follow
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    +1 y
    1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Definitely men

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  • Emmy22uni
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    Xper 3 Age: 41
    +1 y

    Women.

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  • jimmy2
    jimmy2 Follow
    Master Age: 66
    +1 y
    3.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Women

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  • eagle1951
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    +1 y
    3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    men.

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Men easily

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
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    Men!!

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