Do you chase after your love?

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sawno · Accepted Answer

Not chase chase, with the girl who was right for me she was excited to be around me from the start. We clicked well in our personalities. So if we get along well obviously we'd both love to spend time and things will flow naturally. If I have to convince her that I am actually a nice guy and keep chasing her and trying to get her then she isn't that compatible girl I am looking for. If she was genuinely compatible with me on that deeper personality level I would not need her to convince her of that, as I didn't have to convince my last girlfriend either. We just were ourselves after we had a great interaction which lead to being close and along the way we discovered we were immensely compatible.

GoodManDave · Accepted Answer

Physically? Playing, yes... I would, though none of the girls I've dated have really tried playing that kind of innocent stuff. But the head games and all that, I get bored pretty early, if I feel jerked around and like I'm chasing "for the game." So I'll do a little "pursuing" but if it's a struggle to get anywhere, I'm out. I'm not debasing myself constantly for someone. So... if we're talking about "playing the game" or pursuing an interest, sort of, but not really.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I tried chasing one guy I really had feelings for but it just pushed him away. When I just left it things were okay but he was never serious so we went our separate ways. No point chasing someone who doesn't want to be caught.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

Men naturally like to chase. Women only chase when they feel threatened in the situation.  Now, I will only go towards men that will put in the effort to understand my viewpoints

Summeroflove · Answer

You shouldn’t be chasing after someone whose running away. You should be running towards one another not away. Otherwise it’s just probably not going to work.

AviatorTom · Answer

My father often told me the story "I chased after your mother until she caught me."

Jellyfish120 · Answer

As a woman I used to lead and show my interest in some guys. Well, once it turned out that the guy REALLY wanted me to chase him..
That was so strange. It's not worth it if they want you to chase and give you mixed signals after rejecting. Even if it is a girl or a guy. So I did not chase him, I just left his strange game.

But sometimes girls... well, they want to be sure that you're not an usual ass***** (as desribed before). So maybe not the chasing part but showing pure interest for a girl is a right thing to do sometimes.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

No. That's a way to get charges, so nope. If a chick doesn't like me or interests me, then I leave them alone and am wiser for it. There's always plenty of other hotter chicks out there, a little few weeks/months of detoxing and before one knows it, they're ready to move on without ever thinking back to "that chick in hindsight wasn't so crash hot after all" 😁😁😁😌

WhitneySnow · Answer

No. I prefer to be chased, but once I’m settled in a relationship I’m happy with neither of us chasing each other.

Tharithi · Answer

A man who chases in every way possible is so attractive

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Chasing is a game. I'm not going to chase someone when there's 4 billion women in the world. If you don't want to be with me fine, I'll go get someone who does, I'm not going to chase you down and try to convine you.

Anonymous · Answer

Chase suggests I expend more effort. No! More than one woman has learned she must give equal effort with me. Because if she walks away and expects me to follow when she turns around she sees nobody there. I WILL NOT chase without very good reason.

Anonymous · Answer

I kinda did with my X I had broke off with but venting and then relenting he is back to try again.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

no... chasing is a waste of resources... but I can approach him, and we can see how it unfolds

SolitarySolace · Answer

Hell no. I like my life just the way it is. Why would I chase something that'll make my life a living hell? Been there done that never doing it again

kinggeorge007 · Answer

To some extent yeah, but if they are obviously running away, nah I'm not gonna.

elizamichale1 · Answer

I dont need to coz i hav found my love

JesseP1nk · Answer

Never chase buses or women, you'll always get left behind.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have never had to chase anyone.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course I do. Otherwise I’ll never see him again in life, specially if he’s attractive and nice to look at.  Only hot 🥵 men make me want to hit the gym and work on myself

Tinat · Answer

Can't chase love, so... No, I rather wait for it.

JacobJordan · Answer

Nope. I don't do games. If you want to be chased find a child and play tag. Or find a bear

NamerOfStars · Answer

If she loved me, why would she run?

Bricealan · Answer

No. Never have. Never will do that.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I'm more like trapper; not so much a hunter :D

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

If it's within reach I will do my best!

Anonymous · Answer

used to, but not now as im tired..

BullShark · Answer

Chase them in what sense?

12karen · Answer

I used to

IHateBeingaMan · Answer

men do normally

whistlingwh0res · Answer

men chase after sugar mama and then women

CozyCoffin · Answer

No one reciprocates, so why bother?

Anonymous · Answer

Not any more.. it's a waste of time

OtterMan68 · Answer

no, it never works

Dou1994 · Answer

Nope…

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Nope

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