Why do certain people always say they want you but don't show it, like it seems that they wanna break up but are to much of cowards to do it?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Because you “always” show them that it’s ok to waste your time. You gotta learn not to give people chance after chance after chance to hurt or let you down. Otherwise how will they learn to respect your boundaries? How will they see your value when your version of love isn’t holding them accountable for their wrongdoings, but forgiving them without much repercussion? At this point you can only be frustrated with yourself and why you’re unwilling to walk away from that situation.

[Asker]

So then just lose so many people?

[Opinion Owner]

Man how many people are you dating?

[Asker]

1 but I meant forgiving people in general and having no repercussions

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm, you might want to update your question to be clearer then, because no where in what you wrote would I have thought you’re talking about forgiving people in general. The question you wrote looks like you’re asking why someone contradicts themselves when they say they want you or wanna break up but are too big of cowards. Just very different topics, even if that wasn’t your intent.

[Opinion Owner]

But even that question is confusing, forgiving people and having no repercussions? Like they shouldn’t have forgiven that person?

[Anonymous]

People like that are spineless.