Do you put girls on a pedestal?

[war_daddy]

[JacobJordan]

Yes and no. My wife is very much on a pedestal when compared to how I treat other women. She is not on a pedestal when it comes to everything. If she makes a mistake we talk about it. The mistake is not ignored. She isn't infallible nor am I. Infallibility is a hallmark of being human being able to resolve those in a healthy way is important

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I neither place women on pedestals nor want them to put me on one. Idolization is a barrier to authenticity as I see it.

I never wanted to date a fangirl who just agrees with me about everything and flatters me left and right. She leaves me thinking that I don't really know a thing about her because she isn't sharing her true thoughts with me, just saying what she thinks I want to hear.

For similar reasons, I never put women on pedestals.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Avoiding being a simp isn't such a motivation for me, although I definitely don't want to be a submissive asskisser or one who ever tries to buy a woman's interest with flattery or gifts.

The deeper reason I don't put women on pedestals is more a Golden Rule kind of mindset. Since I don't want women to put me on a pedestal, I don't put them on pedestals either. I value really getting to know the true sides of each other, even when we thoroughly disagree on a subject. So I like women I can disagree with, even tease, and ones who also disagree and tease me back.

[Xia1994]

No one deserves to be put on a pedestal all human life is precious. We are all special. In a relationship, each partner must treat each other as mutually special.

[SolitarySolace]

Should, but don't

[Xia1994]

Whattchu mean? I think i'm misunderstanding you?

[SolitarySolace]

Each partner should treat each other as mutually special but they don't. I've never had a girlfriend who treated me the same way I treated them. I mean, they all cheated on me so 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Xia1994]

@SolitarySolace I'm so sorry to hear that!💔 I hope you'll find the love you deserve...

[Xia1994]

!!!*

[SolitarySolace]

1. Drop the act, you don't actually give a shit.

2. This is going to confuse you but I honesty hope I don't find love. Love leads to all of the shit I've experienced. Id rather not experience any of that ever again. I haven't experienced heartache in 9 years. So telling me you hope I find love is just telling me you hope I continue to experience the same shit I have

[Xia1994]

@SolitarySolace Remember your only frame of reference in life is yourself, you know your heart, you know your thoughts but you will never know another person's heart or their thoughts even if they tell them to you you can never be 100 percent certain if what they tell you truly reflects their true thoughts and heart. Therefore you are placing your own thoughts and feelings onto my words by insinuating that I said them in a acting and fake way, you have no idea how i felt and what I thought when i wrote that to you.

I never at all wished any ill will onto you in that text at all, I do not know you i never knew what you experienced so how could i have known?

[SolitarySolace]

Well now you know

[Flatmanlewis]

Meeting a string of cheaters can lead one to think everybody is a cheater. Such jaded thinking is poisonous, toxic, and has lifelong consequences if not crushed. I too had a run with some bad ones in my youth but have seen the world differently having met more and more people in my life. Don’t lose hope. Don’t surrender your goals.

[SolitarySolace]

I dont plan on ever having kids or ever getting married so that would the point be?

[Flatmanlewis]

Something’s in life aren’t about the point or the end state but rather the journey and who we share it with.

[SolitarySolace]

Sure but so far the journey has been pretty shit for me. I’ve already decided to end that journey 9 years ago

[Flatmanlewis]

Well we each have to find our own way.

[SolitarySolace]

I suppose so

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t put anyone on a pedestal and u don’t want anyone doing that to me. Idealization is not a good thing.

[WhitneySnow]

I. Not u.

[SolitarySolace]

Never have, never will. Why would I want to put women on a pedistal when that's what society is doing? That's what corrupt politicians are doing. No one deserves to be put on a pedistal. Women especially don't

[normalice]

Not at all. But nor do I put myself on a soap box.

[BonzoInBitburg]

If you put a woman on a pedestal she'll treat you like a fan

[BadApple69]

I do… it is my weakness. You put your girl on a pedestal and shortly after they become tyrannical. There needs to be a balance.

[SolitarySolace]

Women always tip the scale in their favor and society and politics helps with that

[Chthou95]

Fuck no. I don't kiss women's asses just because they're women

[CRG0310]

I just asked a question on here basically saying…why do women feel like they are always the prize in a relationship and why don’t some women treat men like they are also a prize. I do. But I see a lot of women who think it’s only them that deserves that treatment. It’s embarrassing as a women to see women that think just because they are a women they are the prize

[Chthou95]

@CRG0310 nothings gonna stop from then from thinking that as long as simps exist

[Cody2004]

Fuck no that costs money to buy a pedestal I'll put them like on a hill problem solved they can now feel like they're on top of the world until someone comes up behind them and Boots them off the hill

[HawkPerception]

Definitely not a pedestal. I'm not simp. I always speak my mind. I will always treat others with respect as long as they respect me too.

[argot]

I don't usually call it that, but sure they can mount my cock. What is a pedestal after all but a a long column that supports a statue...

[Billlewis]

Oh, I absolutely place a woman on a pedestal when I'm dating/serving her. I don't know any other way.

[CRG0310]

Wouldn’t you want that in return also though?

[Billlewis]

@CRG0310 Oh, no, not at all. In fact, I usually stop seeing a woman if she's overly nice to me.

[CRG0310]

Interesting!

[Billlewis]

@CRG0310 Yes, ma'am. I'm just much more comfortable in a relationship in which the main purpose of the arrangement is to provide as much pleasure as possible for her. I'm really not interested in much else besides that.

[SolitarySolace]

Simp

[Billlewis]

@SolitarySolace Yes, Sir, thank you very much for your accurate description.

[andreasderjuengere]

For sure: it brings her crotch closer to my tongue.

[ChiTown33]

No. Respect yes. pedestal? No. And when I say respect I mean I respect thier gender. But they still have to earn respect as a person.

[grega239]

No. Pedestals are for things that have value

[tzdc21]

I'll take accountability. I used to. But I know better now.

[itsclearlynicholas]

I treat people fairly and politely where possible, so uhh 😬🤔

[SolitarySolace]

So that's a yes

[LiamJHayden]

No, but I respect others till they give me a reason to not do so.

[thisshouldbefun]

Absolutely not. My perspective, I am the prize. She would be lucky to have me in her life.

[Billlewis]

This ^^^ comment is worth a follow, if that's alright, Sir.

[SolitarySolace]

Women don't view men as a prize. Women consider themselves the prize which explains their entitlement issues

[thisshouldbefun]

I'm not concerned with if a woman views men as a prize. Exactly, their entitlement. Spot on. What I was getting at, was that I don't simp, and I know my value.

[Mediterraneansoul]

Simps do. Unfortunately those happened to be %80 of "men"

[aceleon]

no i put the to their places.

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

No, girls are annoying

[OtterMan68]

I put them in a barber chair

[Enginn]

Whats that even mean?

[SolitarySolace]

Do you empower women/girls so that they’re the ones looking down on you as if they’re the rich and wealthy and you’re the peasant living in trash attempting to please her?

[Sabretooth]

Not in general.

[Sabretooth]

It depends on how I feel and the impact she could have on my life.

[Fireguy17]

No, I do not.