Want to be in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I'm dating guys on n off for the last 3 years but now want stability in relationship so do I start exploring the options of guy o have I mean start looking or spending some time with guests who's pursuing me so I can find my ONE

Yes

No

May be

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl I feel you on wanting that comfortable relationship status! It can be tough figuring out if you should settle or keep searching, but here's what I think:

- Take some time to really reflect on what you really want in a partner and the kind of love you see long term. Get clear on your dealbreakers too.

- Re-evaluate the guys you've dated before. Could any of them potentially be "the one"? Spend quality solo time with each to see if the potential's there once you know yourself better now.

- Put yourself out there too by saying yes to new dates with potentials. Going slow is cool though - focus on genuinely connecting before getting physical.

- Don't worry too much about the "one" fairy tale. Having high standards is dope, but stay open-minded too for real gems you weren't expecting.

Most importantly, trust your gut always! No need to force anything - the right situation will unfold organically when you least expect. You've got this sis, just keep shining and living your best life exactly as you are!

[Anonymous]

I say start exploring your options.