How to be in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

It's not really a thing that I'm pondering on from time to time. But, yeah, sometimes I feel the rush of being in a relationship (not to mention the pressure expressed by my grannies whenever we have a get together or whenever they feel like dying); Sometimes, I don't. I'm trying to give a chance to those guys who genuinely expressed their intentions but in the middle , I just found myself bidding appreciation and goodbyes and am wishing for them to find that one who can reciprocate their love and efforts.

So yeah, I just wanna hear your thoughts about this beautiful creatures. How will I know that I'm ready to be in a relationship? How will I know if I'm ready but I'm just denying it? 😅😅

[PrettyPriya]

It doesn't sound to me like you are ready. When you say that sometimes you feel the rush and other times you don't, that is telling me you aren't sure. The outside pressure seems to get to you and change your thinking as well. Don't let others desires for you to be in a relationship force you into one. That is not good.

There is no magic answer as to when you are ready. That just happens when you are. You will know it. There is no clear signs or anything like that, just that feeling that it is right when you find that person that makes you happy.

I didn't date for almost two years prior to finding my current partner. I didn't force or rush anything and really didn't actively look. One day, he just showed up in my life. The rest is history as we are now engaged. So, it shows that you can't force things and best wait until you are entirely sure you are ready. Best of luck to you.

[Pixel343]

Cuz you haven't been used enough times yet. And you don't have child with no daddy.
I wish I hadda gal

[Guy13]

It will happen naturally. It can’t be rushed.

[Avicenna]

You clearly aren't ready right now. You’ll know you are when you don’t want things to ever end with that person.

[In_Trance]

You're not ready