Anyone else feel that dating is making them miserable?

[me4545]

apart from having children i dont see the point of dating. why do people do it?

[Summeroflove]

It’s to find whose rights for you. But some people aren’t as interested in relationships as others and that’s okay.

Dating is also hard when you’re trying to find the right one but they aren’t going so well. If you’re wanting to find love. Try a coffee shop as a first date. Ifs easy to bail of things aren’t going good. Without Beinf awkward

[me4545]

i strugle with convidence because some guy called me unatractive old and hiddious. i feel lie everyone else will believe this two weeks ago a guy gave me his number and i didn't text him because i though he probably thinks i am old and ugly. this guy told me this for three years non stop

[Summeroflove]

He’s just a dick head. Not someoke you want to be with anyways

[me4545]

thank you i keep reminding myself this his insults repeat in my mind almost every second of the day. i can help but think its possible that there is a girl out there he loves and treat like a princess and me he treats me like garbage when probably that girl will end up divorcing him and take his kids and money one day when they are both old. i seen this happened to way better guys than him. i seriously dont know why i let this peace of trash upset me that much. the guy even hacked my computer to film me and laugh about me with his wife and i see what he been looking out like jewellery for his wife and one day i recall screaming in pain for seeing this on my own laptop. i honesly can't believe a monster like this exists. i know i dont love him anymore now but rebuilding myself from this is going to be a long process and i will definitely need psychological help.

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome. Some people want to tear others down to feel better about themselves, even if what they’re saying is or isn’t true. They just want to be hurtful.

Find someone whose right for you. Some mental health professionals are great and others aren’t so much

[Drew-1990]

No doubt at all I do, it is so frustrating. I have online dating, sadly, because I don't meet many women with my job and stuff. And it sucks never get any likes or matches and when I somehow do I'm quickly ghosted for what seems like no reason at all.

[me4545]

you should create a speed dating business in your area and meet someone there on top of that make money

[laly520]

same
I date seriously n I date to marry not to pass time

[me4545]

same i am trying to marry but right now i have low self esteem cuz some guy keeps calling me ugly under fake accounts.

[laly520]

he is a loser n better be ignored
take some time for urself n focus on it
then once ready u could date again

[Avicenna]

No doubt lots of others would agree with you

[me4545]

all this is because of the internet. god created man and woman to love each other. and love him and reproduce. the internet is missing the point.

[DarkWinterNights]

Trying to date made me miserable. Too much effort and too little return on investment made me lose interest. It’s a lot easier to flirt with no intentions. Now that I’m more or less where I wanted to be by 30, it would have to be the right girl at the right time to convince me to try again.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Not me.
I don't do conventional dating though, I do the "find a hot best friend and marry her" type of dating.
I don't want kids, I just want a wife.
There are a lot of points to it, I'm not going to sit here listing them all though.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Personally I see commitment to one woman as a relief in general, I date to marry and with a wife I no longer have to go through that exhaustion of going through all that dating crap, I can focus on other things in life, yet not have to do it alone, I have one specific person I love and keep each other company, at that point I don't need anyone else and no longer have to waste time in the look for someone.

[Anonymous]

Not anymore. I think to many people view dating primarily as an extension of thaccessories? Worth. Not what relationships were intended for. Why would I want to be in a relationship with a woman who view me just as one of her accesories?

[BarryLiverstone]

I’ve enjoyed many dates. Able to make memories and discover new things with a cool person.

[Berethor]

You asexual?

[Anonymous]

Please don't have children until you're married.