Dating is so annoying?

[Anonymous]

Seriously. i keep meeting a bunch of dirt bags who only want sex. i am getting so damn bored of these guys whose vocabulary consist mainly of hi, cool, and sure. online dating is such a bore. the fuck should i have sex with you? do i love you? do you love me? just because you paid 2 dollars for my water bottle does not mean you should now expect to be paid for your gallant efforts. so fucking annoyed with this hookup culture bullshit.

i am looking for a husband, a guy who is serious who i can trust. i don't need to be married necessarily to lose my virginity, but i want to at least love the fucker before i have sex. how is this such a hard concept for most guys to comprehend? such whiny bitches. this is what i see so many guys complaining about on social media: oh, she didn't kiss my ass at the end of our 2 hour date and is just wasting my time. she just uzzzzeeeiiing me for mah moneeeyyyy. the grand total of 4 dollars that i paid over the course of the last 4 months. ugh, i feel so used. but if she gets knocked up by me, i am definitely gonna run away and she can be a single mother who i of course will avoid because how dare women become single mothers and make poor decisions with the men they date? hypocrite. i know there are still some decent guys out there, but damn it's like a desert out there.

[devilish-cutie]

well hookup culture didn't make this happen, it has always been bunch of people that just wanted a hookup, nowdays its just more free and good thing about it is that you can more easily know if a guy is that way. Now, you obviously make wrong choices in choosing a man when all you choose just wanted a hookup, so maybe think about your criteria when choosing them. I myself am single and fed up as ysf, but there are decent guys on apps, but the thing is i may not be attracted to them. Its like all guys that are good looking are just looking for a hook up, so what can you do, life be like that i guess. Besides you may meet someone great but there isn't a spark... its not easy to find true love else wed all have it

[Asker]

i unfortunately match with a lot of fuckboy types so my choices are limited to them. the kind with six packs that try to court ladies with a hi. i just want an average guy? i swear online dating is like: six pack greek god muscle men with no personality, and balding, fat, below average dudes with great personalities. these guys usually have great personalities and are good people and i like them as a person, but i am not attracted to them. is it too much to ask for decent looks and personality? where are the average guys at? i guess we both have the same problems

[devilish-cutie]

try different apps

[Anonymous]

Quick fix: don’t date. This isn’t me being rude or sarcastic or any negative thing, it’s just true. Online dating just seems like a big cesspool of guys looking for casual arrangements and hookups, so unfortunately the genuine men don’t get much of a shot because they’re overshadowed but the skippable men. So why not just wait for it to happen naturally? Offline.

[scott04sa22]

I’m not looking for sex but most women thinks so. Always start as friends and stay friends for awhile before pulling down your pants so you know if they want love then always sex and go. You can test the waters and test their patients if there unable to wait then let them go. I’m sure there is some good men out there who is willingly to wait. What I’m doing if someone wants my friendship they what to wait and earned it so I can know what their true colors are before I let my Guard down.

[TheFlak38]

sex is the only thing you can offer so shut up and spread your legs. This is how you repay your guy for the endless series of shit tests, emotional blackmail, nagging that drives him to an early grave and your free meals and drinks. If you really wanted a husband then you would let your brother, father, community or church make this decision for you.

[Asker]

ah, i see you're still stuck in the 18th century, the one you time travelled from where women were the property of men. why don't you go and ask your community and daddy to choose your wife? shit tests my ass. i never ask these fuckers to go to fancy restaurants and nor do they pay for me. they spend 2 hours with me. none of them offered me a purse or diamond ring or anything, just 2 dollars or sometimes nothing at all. not enough time for "shit tests." if anything some men are great at shit tests. we split the bill. you sound like a sad bitter man who thinks that just because he buys a pepsi for a woman that she doesn't even ask for, she should now do as he pleases.

[TheFlak38]

I'm not interested in marriage you bitch. Because women like you exist. It's tradthots like you who destroy mens lives with your alpha fucks beta bucks attitude. You want all the privileges of the modern world yet at the same time you want to be the princess of a husband. Fuck off. You can't have both. If I want to treat women like a piece of property then you want to treat men like circus animals jumping through your hoops. Women like you are the absolute worst. Even prostitutes have more honor than you.

[Asker]

okay degenerate. you clearly have a lot of hate and someone must've hurt you really bad. all i said is i am tired of men who want just hookups and nothing serious, so stop getting so riled up. but your opinion is 0 to me so keep getting mad for no reason

[TheFlak38]

awww the hurt little princess who thinks her vagina is god wants a guy for something serious although she has literally zero to offer in return.

[dorksided1]

[Dragonstarterplus]

Cool so what kind of guys do you seek out?

Or so you just limit your options to whoever approaches you? Maybe it's your profile that only leads to trash approaching you and not the guys you're actually interested in?

[Dragonstarterplus]

Ahh I just read some of the other replies here and you state "I match with a lot of fuckboys so my options are limited to them." Maybe try stop being passive and settling for trash and actually pursuing what you want?

[daster4442]

is it maybe your looking wrong places for serious marriage. ask your dad or brother to get you married.

[Asker]

i don't have a brother and my dad doesn't really know anyone he can ask because all his friends are 50 or above with kids that are already married.

[Anonymous]

Depends, are you like the rest of women that fawn over men of a certain physical look and monetary status?

[Asker]

monetary status, no. i expect a man to make an equal salary to me. so if i make 60 thousand, i expect a man to not make less than 50 or 40. i believe people should only look for their equals and should not aim for higher than what they themselves can offer. as for looks, i just want a guy that i am not repulsed by (i. e. not facially ugly and not obese. i don't mind if he's chubby though). i don't think that is asking for much