I noticed online dating that most of the men that I do message seem to have compliments about how attractive I do get annoyed if what they only got to say is. I would prefer to be complimented about my clothes or shoes , my skills. Not just my looks or body. I feel like they are just compliments about my body or face. The messages I got from men were hot, cute, beautiful and Gorgeous two times. I would prefer to revice some compiement before getting to know a person. They do have a second message or just a first message. Then I do get annoyed about it. I'm not interested in friends with benefits, hockup and not sure about sexual relationships. Is this the problem that I can't get a decent guy? I prefer guys that are shorter over being tall. I like guys that are nerds, common intersted, open communication , repecful and understand no mean no. I'm virigin to. I also prefer to get to know the person first and I only compliment about one men's shoes. I don't compliment on that i message first or in the second message i wait until i got know the men before giving out a compliment. I get anonyied about since i get quite lots with some men is in the first message they are doing compliment or some men do compliment after the second message. Why do I feel annoyed each time a man from online dating compliments me about how attractive I am?
Probably because he's full of s***. You wouldn't talk to a person if you were repulsed by them. There's no need to say this.
Whenever a woman calls me "handsome" that's an INSTANT turn off. Because women don't start conversations like that. Odds are it's a man pretending to be a woman. Without a doubt it's manipulative even if it is a woman. Doesn't really help that the majority of the opposite gender (for both genders) out there are predatorial.
At least know that your gender is not the only gender that has to deal with this.
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it sounds like you already said why. you would prefer to be complimented for less material things. a lot of men have good intentions with this though—they may just believe you want the opposite.
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Because you feel the compliment is insincere
Maybe the guy bores you
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