What’s one thing you get annoyed by as a single person when someone pressures you to date?

[cth2188]

I get annoyed by the fact that people assume I must date.. I don’t care if you found someone that’s great you did. I don’t believe in relationships anymore. When it comes to love , I love myself and my children.. I don’t need a loving person from someone to be happy. Since being single over the last few years life has been great without the stress of a relationship and what comes with it. Dating shouldn’t be hard or stress , but it is due to the current dating world which I don’t want any part of. I’m ok making and meeting new people, but that’s about it.. I don’t care about finding the right thing because I’m not looking or interested.. it’s not about being on break - If you want to call being single 8 years a break ok. It’s really annoying from dating people who expects everyone to be open to dating..

[Blackcupcake]

lol well my bestfriend made it a mission months back that she would get me in a relationship by the end of 2021 just because she felt like becoming a matchmaker for me, but she failed miserably since I do not appreciate feelings being forced on to me when I don’t want them

[cth2188]

That sucks.. I am so glad my family doesn’t do that.. I don’t do blind dates

[Blackcupcake]

I don’t either hahaha

the one time… she got me to a blind date, I was fooled into it thinking it was just a fun night with friends and she certainly did not do that ever again after the beast was unleashed😤🤣💀

[cth2188]

She’s not a good friends to be pressuring you to date when you probably told her you don’t

[Blackcupcake]

she didn’t have any ill intentions, and to her it wasn’t really that serious and I didn’t take it too personal either since I know her well enough to know that she probably thought I would get really excited after going on the date hahaha

[cth2188]

Ok that’s good

[Anonymous]

I get annoyed when women get angry with you because you don't want to date them. I mean I understand rejection. we all deal with it from time to time. And I even understand her being disappointed and angry. But internalize it. Don't take it out on the other person.
I once had this girl accuse me of sexual assault simply because I didn't respond to her advances... that's just foul!

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

The whole "you need some company" schtick.
No thank you. I wanted to be left alone at the time and with that excuse people kept ringing me and showing up at my house.

[cth2188]

Right lol

[Rockstarrrrr]

I hate that most people want to be in a relationship just for the sake of being in one and not being alone.. I don't like that mentality at all

[cth2188]

It’s really annoying I wonder if they are a) happy b) with the right person themselves

[Rockstarrrrr]

Nope.. And nope lol... And after they're almost psychologically wrecked and drained... They call it " experience " and fun times haha

[cth2188]

Yep … I am so glad I don’t deal with it

[zagor]

I've never felt a lot of pressure to date, so I can't really relate. As far as I know people are fine with me being single.

[scooogy]

When they say "I'll get you a partner"

[cth2188]

Lol … or they pressure me into a relationship when I’m only seeking “ friends “

[scooogy]

with benefits? 👀

[cth2188]

No just friends society now assumes friends is friends with benefits and dating is sex

[cth2188]

I don’t do friends with benefits