Then he drove from Shanghai to Suzhou just for me and I felt responsible to at least, go out on a dinner with him since he drove from so fat.
I went on one dinner with him and told him from the beginning that I wouldn’t like to call it a date, because as I mentioned earlier I didn’t have time for dating and I didn’t want him to think it was a date. When I met him, I figured I had zero connection with him, not emotional, not physical, nothing. I also disliked his voice on top of it all.
I would rather stay single eternally than be in a relationship with someone I have zero connection to.
I tried to be gentle to him and told him gently that I was not interested in 2nd meeting because I still had feelings for my ex and I am not ready for a relationship,
he didn’t get the hint.
He bought a ticket and planned a trip to Georgia, just to have common things to talk to me.
I asked him to not do it for me, because I wouldn’t change my mind.
He has been messaging me every month. Asking me why I didn’t want to meet him, is it because of my appearance? And I didn’t want him to have a low opinion of himself, so I told him he is a nice man, I just was not ready and we met at the wrong time and so on.
He wanted to meet me again and I told him I was in Suzhou, he drove there for me wanted to take me to Shanghai with his car and also told me he has bought something for me on his way, without even asking me. I never knew he was coming there, I told him I was in Suzhou, so maybe he’d leave me alone. At that point, I was already annoyed and didn’t meet him anymore. I left Suzhou by train that night.
Since he didn’t stop messaging me, I told him 2 weeks ago, that I met someone and I am now taken.
That’s not truth. I am single. I just wanted him to forget about me.