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Why is respectful rejection seen by men as an invitation to try harder? (Page 2)
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You were under no obligation to meet him and given his creepy behaviour you were foolish enough to agree. Guys l like that shouldn't be allowed near woman.
This has to be one of the best questions ever asked -- every mother who has a son should make a copy of this thread and tape it to her son's mirror.
Im kinda lost.. he didn't wanna be serious with you..(just like FF) he told you abou it and than your are mad about what
No, he wanted us to date. I didn’t want to date, nor to see him ever again.
He wanted a serious relationship right from the beginning.
Kk.. u got scared.. did you let him know.. sometimes poeple think by beeing fast with putting a word on the relationship that theirs life is set ready for it wants you to knows about it
I didn’t get scared! I feel zero attraction to that person. I would rather be single in 100 of my lives then ever get in a relationship with him.
Lol.. i feel pity.. so when you gotta meat someones that you dont like at all.. you feel the need to let him know that you rejected him.. to hard to not answering back.. lol
I find it creepy.. everyone should know no means no and understand boundaries this kind of delusional behaviour disgust me to next level
If he is making you feel uncomfortable and ignoring you, You Shouldn't feel Guilty for being rude when he is being rude to you.
gotta love the deliberate mix messaging
guys being told to not give up their hopes and give up their hopes at the same time
That guy looks like me sort of, in a dorky, heavier way. Lol. Ah well. Unlucky in love I also am lol, oh well 😂
*Some* men. And the reason is either 1) They're ignorant animals or 2) Too many women in our society play hard to get and want men to do dumb shit like this before they give the guy "a chance".
I think it's better to block people who can't respect that
Rapists don't know the meaning of rejection or no.
Treat them as such. Report rapists to the authorities.
Looks like the poor female-to-male ratio in China is starting to manifest itself.
Nope, in China girls jump onto guys, if they see a handsome rich guy they’ll have sex on a first date.
So most Chinese instead marry Eastern Europeans, if the Chinese guy is handsome enough he prefers Eastern European over Chinese girl
I’ve lived here for 5 years on and off, I am pretty familiar with what I am talking about
To much pornography and trying to seduce you into bed with him to make you look like his own personal poornstar. Horny bugger 🤣
Same reason why respectful rejection is seen by women as an invitation to try harder
No, it’s not. Are we from the same planet?
Then I can say thesame for men, it's not. if you ask that, are women not humans?
I don’t see how your comment is relevant at all.
That’s a poor attempt of wishing to make things equal.
Are you going to turn the question around everytime a “man” is mentioned?
Or is it this certain behavior you’re advocating?
Maybe it's irrelevant because you just like being one sided. You've never even proven that your question is only a man thing. Your own text message anecdote is just one person you're talking about. If I say one women is being a karen and use her as a proof that all women are karens, would that make me automatically truthful? What about your behavior tho generalizing men tho? You yourself don't even wanna hear it if I talk about women being like that as well so what makes you so special?
Men, particularly young men, see refusals as a challenge and they try even more. Better to just ghost them.
Because we’re so horny and shameless. Best advice: cut it quickly
Because they're inconsiderate, rude and assume women want them just as much as they want women.
Men always get rejected. So really have make it clear not interested if you aren't feeling them
Because some of you turn around and say you wanted us to try harder.
Not in this case
How is he supposed to know that? You women frequently say 1 thing and mean the other, or at the very least change your mind
I will never change my mind. He must have gotten the hint that I never texted him back. Out of these 5 months I only texted him back 3 times and to tell that I wasn’t free to date.
There is a common stereotype that women are emotional while men are rational. Here we have proof that men can be irrational too.
You really should’ve blocked the guy a long time ago. That’s just really creepy behavior