It sounds like it's in the best interest of the children for you to disclose the full extent of the abuse. These babies don't deserve to live in a situation like that. I work in the mental health field and I often share clients who are involved with social services. Depending on where you live, they may not remove the children from her care right away. Where I live, these cases often cause what's known as a "foster care prevention" case to be opened. This involves the parent getting to keep their child but they are court ordered to participate in various services to *hopefully* improve their situation and avoid the children being placed with a relative or going into foster care. It may involve things like, getting mental health services, parent coaching, substance use treatment, etc. I've seen it be really successful in some cases and the parents were able to turn things around. Either way though, what's happening to these children is heartbreaking and wrong and it needs to be reported, for their sake.
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It's best to have them kids in your care and the social services can't get you in trouble they are there to help you nowadays they would place kids with suitable families then to place them in foster care trust me, foster care is not to what they should be in and it's sad my little cousin who is now age 36 was sign over to my late mothers care and the mother agreed to it but in your situation, the social services will protect them, kids, as best as they can and if your able to take them then do so (( hugs ))
Your primary duty is to protect those children. If it is not safe for them to be with their mother, then you have to report it or take other action to get them to a safe place. Could you foster them if she loses custody?
What about the father of the six-year-old? Is he competent?
The two-year-old definitely has a father, although she may not know who it is. If the father can take the older child, could you foster the two-year-old? It sounds like you are already doing that.
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Yes, you need to tell them everything it's not about you or her it's about the children that have no voice
God bless for helping those children so much!
Yes, she is unfit.
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