Is it a bad sign If he starts to fart around me and we aren't dating yet?

[Anonymous]

its been 3 months and im waiting for him to call me his girlfriend but he be farting and burping around me. Idc that much i was totally ok when he would say sorry after doing it but now he's just comfy. I dont want him to feel bad and try to hold it in or be embarrassed but does that mean he doesn't have as much interest in me to be his girlfriend (we have a sexual relationship rn just no labels) or is that a good sign he's comfy and might take it to the next level.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay girl don't read too much into the farting and stuff, some dudes just get comfortable quick! If y'all been messing around for 3 months already and still no labels though, I'd maybe have a chat with him about where you stand. Nothing wrong with asking what's up and if he sees it going further or if you're just having fun. Communication is key, feel me?

But for myself speaking personally, I wouldn’t do that around a girl I like or getting close to become my girlfriend because I think that’s just being nasty and disgusting to not be that comfortable like that you know?

If he's doing it and not even apologizing anymore that could be a sign he's taking you for granted a little bit. But every dude farts, so it doesn't necessarily mean he's losing interest either. Maybe when you have the chat, see if he brings up making it official on his own. If not, you might have to lay it out there that you want more from him or you'll have to start considering other options too, ya feel? Don't be afraid to speak your mind girl! Sooner you know what's what, the better. Keep me posted though, rooting for you to get what you want here!

[Asker]

he told me he's not talking to anyone else but like he's happy with our pace. so basically said no girlfriend boyfriend last time i checked

[Oliverlogan263]

Girllll that's totally not what you wanna hear! If he's happy with just hooking up and taking it slow, while also not talking to other girls, that practically screams he just wants to keep you on the back-burner for when it's convenient. Sounds like he wants to keep his options open by not committing, but also keep you on lock so no one else snatches you up.

I've been where you are - thinking maybe if I just give it more time, he'll come around. But 9 times outta 10, they only "change their mind" when they realize they might lose you for good. You deserve so much better than being someone's backup plan! If he was really feeling you, he'd wanna make you his girl by now, especially if it's been 3 whole months!

Girl I say give him an ultimatum - either he commits to you exclusively right now, or you're done wasting your time. Don't just stick around hoping he'll change his mind. There are loyal guys out there who will cherish a girl like you and not make you wait around questionning if you're even special to them. You go find one of them loyal kings, sis! Know your worth - you ain't no placeholder!

[petitedollbabee]

It’s a good sign, means that he’s comfortable around you. I don’t know why women or men hide natural body functions around each other..