Does a woman have to be ugly to get frequently rejected by men?

[Anonymous]

I think I am an attractive woman. I’m 22 but I seem to always get rejected when I make the first move. If I don't make the first move I only attract “alpha male” fuckboys the type that has some long list of women and thinks everyone wants them.

When I message a guy first or try to strike up a conversation I tend to get curved or ignore etc. One time I'd been getting to know this guy for a while and I told him I was interested straight up and he rejected me so directly I thought about it for days. It’s not even like I'm not straight foward, sometimes I’m more vague but half the time I don't even get the opportunity to be straight forward before they ghost or cut the conversation short. If a woman is continuously rejected, does that mean she's ugly?

[Anonymous]

From personal experience, the prettier and more ideal the girl is for a guy, the more skeptical of her interest in them they can get.

Certain girls seem to "get off" in making a guy reveal he likes her, just for the feeling of being the most attactive and knowing she's able to have or leave the guy, but really she isn't overly interested vs the attention and knowing she could (guys avoid such girls and if you give out that vibe that could explain it).

Guys learn to be duely skeptical of direct interest from girls, and even when older worry about getting into a girl who might flip-flop on liking them (e. g. worry they might not be good enough for her).

So, its entirely possible these guys are ghosting your becasue they think your TOO good for them, and you'll get bored or are just trying to get a rise out of them. Though usually when these guys get more mature they will come back to you.

That said, its equally possible they are finding your advances creepy. I recall one girl coming to me and saying "I bet your hung like a horse!", I found that a very creepy way to interact with me and, despite her looks (which where okay) I wasn't interesting in spending time with her. Not saying you do that yourself of course, but I think its generally true that if the way you come on to a guy crosses over into something where they are creeped out by the attention they will avoid you after.

[itsclearlynicholas]

I often have the same experiences as a man yet with woman. I don't approach them, yet I get weird alpha females. I approach them, they're off the market lol woman 👠 or so they claim lol 😂😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

And surely neither of us, is ugly. So what's the deal? I just don't know 😬

[SolitarySolace]

No. I have rejected gorgeous women because I want to be single

[itsclearlynicholas]

Preach 🙌🏻

[BarryLiverstone]

Sounds like how guys would treat her if she’s less attractive

[KrakenAttackin]

No, but your communication is probably lacking.