I often hear from friends that men call women ugly after they get rejected. I have never had a man approach me directly since I am an introvert, have just one friend, don't attend parties, and have always been to girls only schools. I use my social media accounts to post photos clicked by me (eg:- nature) and none of them have a single photo of my face.
A few days ago a guy I attended a class with for a month, messaged me. We never talked during our classes and I didn't even know that he existed. He said that he liked me and there was appearnely no reason why he was feeling that way. I turned him down politely saying that I was interested in someone who didn't have any reason for liking me.
The guy didn't lose hope and tried for three times. And then when he finally realised that I wasn't interested in him, he said :" you are okay looking. But can't ever be beautiful". Then after a few minutes, i received another message that says :" you are very ugly. My future girlfriend will definitely not look like you."
I didn't understand what was wrong with me. My tone was probably a little sarcastic during his third attempt but not mean. And his appearance was never mentioned by me.
Personally I deal with Body dysmorphic disorder and suffer from a lot of insecurities. His words have made me feel even worse.
Did he call me ugly because I rejected him or was he being honest?