Why do women tolerate shitty behavior from men?

[Anonymous]

Ladies, why you do this? I see it all the time; all these good women tolerating shitty treatment from shitty men who are just lazy and not worth it. Basically, the shittier they treat them, the more they chase after them. And then you wonder why "all" men are assholes... It's because you are allowing it! Don't you get it? Men stopped putting effort because they don't need to. Because women are lowering their standards to minimum. They overlook red flags in fear that if they speak up they will chase a guy away. But you know what? Yes, you will chase him away, and you should be happy about that because that guy is a bloodsucking mosquito that somehow slipped through natural selection. A worthless parasite. A boy, not man! Real men are out there. You are just not looking. It's that nice guy that you friend-zoned or that ugly guy that you cold-heartedly rejected. Now, I'm not saying women should settle down with someone they're not attracted to, no one should. I'm just saying that before you start rambling about how all men are assholes and you are unicorns that shit rainbows, you should take a good look into a mirror and ask yourself why are things the way they are. I honestly think it's women's fault that most men are assholes. Ladies, imagine if every women in the world would NEVER tolerate shitty behavior from guys who are commitment-phobes. They would turn around ask themselves "where did all women go?". And then they would either have to do each other or - guess what - make a fucking effort. Right now they don't make any effort because if one women calls him out on his bullshit, he has million other options, million other dumb chicks who WILL tolerate his bullshit. Especially with this "amazing" thing called online dating. Everything is just one click away, no effort needed what-so-ever. Ladies, please stop it. Stop degrading yourselves and allow these lowly men to become more then just procrastinators. They can do it, you just gotta stop spoiling them.

[Abcdefghij1]

I'm currently with that shitty guy that's manipulated me and degraded me over our relationship. The thing is at the start they are loving and sweet the people not involved might be able to see the real him but he essentially put on a mask when with you. I would much rather be in a different relationship but he's made it so that I'm reliant financially on him and he destroyed what little self esteem I had when I met him. I should also add when I got with him I wasn't in a good psychological place and he probably used that to his advantage.

[Chaz269]

That "victim" mentality will serve you beautifully in the society we've created! This is your chance to kill him and get away with it, or at least put him in prison for the next 15 years minimum.
Never mind. I just reread your opinion. It's clear to me that you revel in the martyr role. Make sure you write your own eulogy ahead of time, or people might not say about you exactly what you wish.

[Abcdefghij1]

@Chaz269 I haven't had enough sleep to determine if you're being an arsehole or not. I'm not playing the victim card someone asked a question I answered from my point of view there is always 2 sides to a story. I wouldn't kill him either they would put me in a mental institution instead of jail and I dont particularly want to go there. As for the eulogy I dont need nor want one I dont particularly care what people have to say when I'm dead. I want saying that its all his fault either I am to blame for some of the things that's happened in just didn't feel the need to elaborate and the question didn't ask for that either.

[dwiller943]

We don't tolerate it. We just settle with them, because assholes are the only ones that show interest in a good woman.

[CuChullan]

Strong words. You're right in some of what you say, but not in all you say. There's as many shitty women out there as there are shitty men. Men aren't lazy and women haven't dropped standards. Society has. Society has confused the whole issue. Why? Because there's money to be made. Every aspect of life today has become commodified, even dating.

[Anonymous]

My favorite is how many divorced single mothers who wouldn't give me the time of day in high school are suddently interested in me, only after the asshole that knocked them up left. Too late!

[ankita_lokhande]

Proud of you. Some men are so silly that they eventually end up marrying these single moms. But thank god these rate is going down.

[Jack_L_andTurn]

Common in human nature is the desire to have that which is difficult to obtain. Equally common is the desire to be accepted.

People with both of the aforementioned tend to chase people who are somewhat obnoxious and not very kind to them.

[SarahsSummer]

sounds like it starts from a shitty pool of men to choose from.

[Chaz269]

You don't really believe "most men are assholes," do you?
Before you answer, would you also suggest that most women are assholes?

[Andrew2128]

Yeah just use opposite psychiatry on him no reason why he's doing it because he's trying to do the opposite of what you want of men love doing that s*** to women

[Anonymous]

So many women would rather be with a shitty guy than be alone. Some of these women are too frightened to be alone. Some are coerced into staying.

[abundantlyrich]

The guys are a reflection of their own worthlessness

[Delarobia]

They do this because the other option is me and when you get to that point is kind of like you die inside lmao

[QueenofCups]

I still have feelings for someone who once cheated on me, but I'm not with him anymore.

[Slim57]

Relatable

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Low self esteem people who don't have much self respect or no respect at all, disrespect doesn't affect their ego and pride much therefore they put up with just about any humiliation.

[blackout355]

Most of the time it's a turn on. Sometimes she might take it hard. And thinks she can't get better

[Harsh_Ch]

Women like jerks, just like me
And that's an undeniable fact... deal with it
Ugh... ack...(i'm drowning in pussy)

[Chaz269]

Oh... this must be swole_cook's backup account!
Sup, douchebag?

[Harsh_Ch]

@Chaz269 who tf is swole_cook?
Send me his real link so I can check him out...
Us douchebags need to stick together

[Iamagoodguy]

I don't know but I also don’t know why men also put up with shitty behaviour from women

[Mudak]

Cause they're stupid, there can't be another reason

[dwiller943]

Try being a good woman that only attracts assholes, because nice guys are too chicken-shit to show interest in you. And you develop PTSD, confusion, and insecurity because of it. Does that make us "stupid" now?