Is it possible to become too used to being single? lol I don't know but I’m feeling a little too comfortable in the idea I will never be in love again.
For me after my worst break up (we were actually engaged to be married), I really thought I'm done with dating. So I gave up trying to date completely.
Still, I wanted to have good friends so I made a bunch of friends, more than I ever did before. Then hung out with them all over the place: home parties, picnics, barbecues, weddings, birthday parties, hiking, camping, traveling to new places together (rent giant hotel rooms and share them), etc.
I met my wife through that experience at a picnic. She was a friend of a friend. After a year of hanging out, we were so into each other and constantly at the edge of the parties wanting to talk to each other while our friends would have to shout, "Hey, you two are missing the party!"
Then one day our friends all left early leaving us alone in a bar. So we started to dance and she kissed me and I kissed her back and after that, it seemed silly not to start dating. So I asked her on a date.
Still, I think it helped that I stopped looking for a date and even somewhat allergic to the idea. So I think it might even be healthy to quit dating completely as long as you socialize and meet new people a lot and spend a lot of time in good company. Then you might still discover your perfect date even though you weren't looking for one.
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I've actually quite comfortable, still...
but, I've never really seen it like that, if the moment happens and I meet someone that's truly interesting and intriguing for me... I know very well that I will be all up for it
although, I am not actively looking for dates... never done that, really
depends on how fast u will heal
some take weeks some take years
healing journey isn't easy but manageable
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For me, you know when a smile from someone carrys you a way to the point your so distracted by it everything feels pointless without the smile. Then your ready.
Putting it another way, if your asking yourself if you should date again I'd say your not ready.
You don't truly know till you throw yourself out there ;)
You should know when, seems like you have found peace being by yourself tho
what's stupid is that there is a calculation for this. but girls need very little time to regain their resolve
For me I got very used to and happy being single. It was at that point I met my wife. “The perfect woman for me”. For awhile I actually rejected the feelings. And her interest. But eventually I excepted her and it has been great ever since.
Sure you be in love again your only 28 you still have a lot of living to do plus falling in love is the one thing we can't control
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