Girls, Ladies, be honest, what do you value in guys?

[Jor-El_Star]

Women (not all) typically say they want a nice guy, until they get one. Women (not all) will say they want a nice guy that's emotionally mature, ambitious, caring, makes them feel safe, etc. Some women may even find a guy that checks a lot of boxes on their laundry list of "requirements" a man should have to even get 2 minutes of their time, then turn around a cheat. Again, not all women do it, but just based on social media stories, it appears to be an alarming majority. Ladies be honest, what do you value most in men?

Money and status

Physical appearance and sex

Loyalty and emotional maturity

[_Maya_]

What is the definition of a nice guy? That could mean different things to different people. My concern is when you are getting your sources from social media stories. Do you believe in everything you read online? Especially on social media? God I don't. There are so many people out there that are so bitter because they think all girls are against them and so they make up these stories to fill a narrative so they can say see look!! It's true! Because without their narrative they have nothing to bitch about. So I'm always concerned when people use social media as a replacement for actual studies that are conducted with some sorta professionalism and controls in place. "alarming majority" is alarming that you believe that. You see what you want to see and social media is flooded with toxic people pushing their BS beliefs.

[Jor-El_Star]

Fair enough. However, I did say not all women and "appears to be an alarming majority." I never said anything was factual or concrete evidence behind my question. It's simply that... a question. No need to take offense or anything else.

[Anonymous]

Almost all of that and if he doesn’t have all of it then I’m rather single. That’s the reason I’ve been single for years and don’t date - I havn’t met a man that live up to my standards. I’m perfectly content being single and wouldn’t have a problem being single for the rest of my life. In fact, I’m counting on it. So no, I will not lower any standards.

[Jor-El_Star]

Does that mean you're "touch neglected" then. Haha. That's a joke by the way. May not be a good one, but a joke nonetheless. Just based on your reply, does that mean you are not intimate with anyone?

[Tulip_A_Dasiy]

Loyalty, Physical appearance, Emotional maturity and Sex

[Nikki1989]

The third one is the only one that really matters.

[Jor-El_Star]

Do you encounter difficulties finding a guy that has those qualities? That's of course assuming you're single.

[laly520]

the third option I would pick

[Jor-El_Star]

In your experience, how difficult (if at all) is it to find that in a guy?

[laly520]

was very difficult to find a guy like that
but happened in end

[Jor-El_Star]

Well congratulations to you and your man, honestly. May I ask where you two met? I'm a believer in the potential in finding your special someone anywhere. You just gotta be open to the idea it can be anywhere and unexpected like online, while getting gas, at the gym, school, work, etc.

[laly520]

yes that is correct
we met when I travelled to Europe, on vacation