Girl I met at the gym very interested in me was chasing me hard. I disappeared. Looked for me at another location of the gym. What’s the play?

[Anonymous]

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Did I do the wrong thing not making myself seen where I met her (my old gym which I’m not currently a member) this past weekend? Do I make myself seen this coming weekend?

[laly520]

she likes u n wants to take step forward

[Asker]

I took a step. Small steps. (to indicate I’m interested). Disappeared after because I have to do what I have to do. Made myself seen where I met her. She looked flustered when she saw me from a distance, probably nervous, maybe embarrassed. I believe I saw her run off from a distance on my second trip by on my way out. (I was a little rushed myself because I knew my real reason for being there that time).

[Asker]

Did I do the wrong thing not making myself seen where I met her (my old gym which I’m not currently a member) this past weekend? Do I make myself seen this coming weekend?

[Anonymous]

Are you interested in her? Or want to avoid her?

[Asker]

Interested. I moved to a nearby city where I’m from.

[Opinion Owner]

Go for it! Find her and ask her out.

[Asker]

Read my reply below please

[Asker]

Help

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, okay.. you need to find her again and say hi. What exactly are you asking? You will have to approach her to have this move forward.

[Asker]

I could see she ran away from a distance as I came into her view again after looking flustered / shy when I first saw her when I came in. Why did she run away? Did I do the wrong thing not making myself seen again this weekend? (It would have been 1 week, in the theory of being scarce - aside from having needed to disappear for legitimate reasons). I wasn’t in a good place for her to approach again. I don’t want people there seeing me talk to her and I think she doesn’t either. She approached me this way initially and I would keep this in mind when talking to her. I have been told based on this behavior she’s shy and possibly scared (overwhelmed with emotion). Do I make myself seen at the gym again next weekend (2 weeks from last sighting)? Would a week (this weekend) have been too soon? Do I rejoin the gym again? I’m trying to work out a good deal 😅 because the only reason is to run into her again, which is what happened. (Although out of my way now) when I went back there. Do I make it a day time encounter?

[Opinion Owner]

Why don’t you want people seeing you talk to her? I guess I don’t see any other way around this.

[Asker]

Im not interested in interacting with certain individuals. I believe she doesn’t want to be seen interacting with me in front of them either. Aside from that, which is minor, what about my other questions?

[Asker]

Did I do the wrong thing not making myself seen where I met her (my old gym which I’m not currently a member) this past weekend? Do I make myself seen this coming weekend?