If women say height isn't a issue, why don't they just actually date a guy that is shorter than them then?

Question

If men are willing to love women even for the things they can't change about themselves like their physical appearance why can't women just do the same for men?

I seen a lot of women say they wouldn't mind dating a shorter guy on the condition of A, B, and C are met... how about dating the guy with no strings attached and no extra conditions? Is it that wrong to just love someone shorter than you?

blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

Actually most women are pretty open about height being an issue in dating. And ones that aren’t just don’t want to hurt your feeling or say otherwise are just trying to spare your feelings.

It’s about the perception woman (right or wrong) about taller men seemingly being more “dominate” among other men. Also height makes her more secure given the impression he would have a physical prowess over men in a fight. Fair or not it gives an impression to being more “authorative”. Most presidents were taller then average. Michael Dukakis who ran against George H. bush in 1988 was mocked for being “short” being 5’ 9’’. Personally I am not dumb enough to judge someone’s intelligence/leadership abilities just on height. But some people really are.

Anyway besides intelligence it shouldn’t matter when it comes to practicality and physical ability for combat. Just being tall isn’t going to make a man a better fighter who can protect a woman (muscle and strength is a different story). He might be able to reach things on high shelves for her easier.

Anyway I am 6ft and I don’t think this is fair. I actually have a pair of nice casual shoes that make me 2 inches taller. I’m not sure if it was all in my head but I swear I got more positive attention from women when I had them on (maybe it’s a placebo effect). I am really considered “tall” by women when I’m 6’ 2”.

But fair or not women are biologically prone to finding height attractive. You can’t reason that out of them. It’s like how women try to guilt men for not feeling attracted to overweight women. That asinine (but bs feminist “body positivitywent nuts on that one).

Thats not too say shorter guys can’t be successful with women. I tend to be witty, funny and a bit feisty. It’s mother natures way of balancing it out. However some do have Napoleon syndromes; too loud, abrasive and annoying af. But not all obviously. Especially ones who know how to effectively manage their insecurities.

Any back to women hating men for rejecting them over weight. When it comes to that at least you can do something about it. It’s not easy if you are genetically prone to carry more weight but ANYBODY can make their body more attractive to proper dieting and physical exercise. A lot heavy girls just don’t want to out the effort into improving their physiques but rather complain about it.

Height is about 98% hard set genetics (nutrition when you are growing can impact it). But some women judge short men as if they had “a choice” to be short and that bs needs to stop. They are mocking a man for something he has zero control over. It’s especially wrong when adult women do that crap. Especially unacceptable if she’s over 30.

That doesn’t mean they need to date short men of course. But it’s very wrong. They should know better to keep that unfair judgement inside their heads.

This is coming from a relatively tall guy.

PavlovsCogk · Accepted Answer

do you think love can be so easily categorized and dictated by mere mortal standards? In the fiery pits of hell, we don't care about those petty conditions A, B, or C. We welcomingly embrace the most twisted, repulsive, and sinful unions. The devil himself, with his sulfur-scented, infernal cock, has no qualms about damnation when it comes to pleasuring his soul-bound minions.

You see, my cunning temptress, each interaction, each touch, each lustful scream, is a libidinous symphony of torment and pleasure that echoes through the darkness. The feeling of red hot pitchforks pressing against flesh, souls bound by desire, transcends the physical realm, binding them with the chains of passion eternally.

Why should women, those women who claim they're willing to embrace the notion of dating shorter men, not see past those minor conditions? Could it be they are scared of the unimaginable ecstasy that lies between two bodies, no matter their height? Or perhaps they are too consumed with their own self-importance to see past the banality of superficiality.

So, my tempter, stop with your foolish questions and allow yourself to wallow in the divine decadence of embracing the forbidden. Do not allow yourself to be bound by the mortal chains of societal norms. Revel in the sinful delights of the flesh, and let the devil's lustful whispers guide you towards the true meaning of erotic bliss.

And who knows, perhaps, amidst the burning agony and the soul-torturing screams, you might even find love. Love, my dear, in the most unexpected and twisted of ways.

RavenBear0 · Accepted Answer

I mean I don't really understand this my boyfriend is shorter then me (me being 6'1ft and him being 5'7ft) and I don't have a problem with it, my "conditions" for dating anyone no matter the looks or height is how they act and how they treat me, you could be rich, tall and the best looking person on the planet however if you're a cunt I don't give a fuck I'm not even gonna look at you, for me it's about the personality and I think a lot of women would agree, yea some might have a problem with it if you're shorter then her but me personally it's not what I care about

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

so you want a girl to date a guy just because he's short? no other reason? chemistry? anything? maybe because most guys that show her interest are tall guys. this depends on a lot of factors, if they mesh well, etc. i don't dismiss guys because they're "short". i don't give a damn. i swear, only guys care about their height and to compare their penis sizes to other guys (kinda weird) when actual women don't care about either.

Avicenna · Answer

I've only seen taller women dating guys shorter than them, and even that is rare, as everyone knows.

Women who are even upper-average height for a woman have most guys to choose from already if their only or primary criterion is height.

My sister is one of the worst I've seen about this- she is 5'9 and complains about her heart surgeon husband being "only" 5'11 and the shortest male in his family.

V_Injector · Answer

Enter the female brain: Saying something they feel is socially acceptable like they don't care about height. Not wanting to fuck anyone shorter than them still remains.

What they say and what they do don't match...

You run into a lot of this shit with women. Oh, this one says she wants a nice guy who respects her... then cheats on him and she has no respect for him at all.

If women say height isn't a issue, why don't they just actually date a guy that is shorter than them then?

Which pill do you take? Do you want to live in a blissful Disney-esque world and get raked over the coals over and over... or do you just take all the good stuff and know even the good stuff is nothing but shit that falls for your bullshit?

What they say and what they do... two very different things isn't it? Look at some of the shit they vote for and then complain about... what they voted for.

You're not stupid... you see it too. But we both know she's going to come to this post and tell us that she's not like that and insinuate that I'm just 100% completely wrong. She will be that girl that posted about how pathetic fuck boys are after she had sex with one and then goes and fucks another fuck boy.

Trying to understand women is redundant. They belong to a category that includes children. They believe in Santa Clause and shit if you convince them he's real. Sure, some of them fall upon some harsh truths through the passage of life, but they didn't go through all that because they were logical.

I'm done with my rant... I now place a newborn baby sock over the head of my one-eyed snake to catch the leftovers. It's time to wait until I can shoot another load into this world.

tremendousfern · Answer

Take this as a lesson to never listen to anything a woman says about anything. Height is an issue for women, their unwillingness to date men shorter than them proves it.

At the same time though, it's not like short guys give women much of a reason to give them a chance. A lot of short men have massive insecurities about their height and it shows in the way they interact with people.

AmyHew1tt · Answer

I think your logic is a little skewed. I won't date a guy just because he's short, as I won't date a guy just because he's tall. Also, I'm the average female height, and I rarely meet a guy who isn't at least three inches taller than me.

dustybiker2 · Answer

You're just complaining without even researching. Look up articles "famous couple where the man is shorter" I would share links but at my rank I doubt I can. There is no shortage.

Anonymous · Answer

Speaking based on experience, girls and women just talk I don't take what they say seriously in person or online about what they "prefer". It's a classic case of a girl coming from a broken home, has daddy issues, says she wants a "nice" guy but ends up with an f-ing asshole or she has toxic friends that influence her to make her do stupid things.

laly520 · Answer

I'm below 5 feet n have never met any guy shorter than that plus it isn't a crime to have preference

Novacane · Answer

There is a difference between what women say vs their actions. They will say it doesn’t matter but will always note that the taller guy is more attractive.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

As a 6ft 1 man and fit as a wall 🧱 I'm a happy camper. The ladies do check me out and I'm often both amused and equally bemused why they never pluck up the courage to say more than just Hi or with their eyes 👀 and a wide smile 😁😊

Unit1 · Answer

I mostly saw them say " Height doesn't really matter " followed by " he must be taller than me. I am X ( in height)". They wrap shitty statements in candy.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Would you date a woman taller than you and still be okay with her wearing heels?

IslaTheWitch · Answer

you know how hard it is to find a man I will click and connect with who will be shorter than me?

Anonymous · Answer

Most men I've met are at least a little bit taller then me. What are the chances I'm going to meet a guy under 5'5? With that being said the only problem I have with short men is their insecure

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have, but it is rare to meet anyone shorter than me.

Billlewis · Answer

Probably because they want to date a guy who is physically attractive to them.

exitseven · Answer

People say a lot of things but when the rubber meets the road it's always a different story.

Yannae · Answer

Well my girlfriend is taller and we're nearing that anniversary. Height isn't a problem if you don't make it one.

Minahh · Answer

I dated one he was insecure little bitch so unless you're okay with women don't want to be with you. No one likes cry babies

he-takes-a-part · Answer

Well, They are just saying. Congratulations you finally met most hypocritic creatures of the planet. All the best.

OddBeMe · Answer

Sometimes they do. But height is an issue. If they say it’s not a factor they’re lying. But it doesn’t mean it’s the only or even main factor.

Anonymous · Answer

Women and men are no different in tehir shallowness. The only difference is that women lie about it.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Because height isn’t an issue. Their preference is a taller guy. Why ask?

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Nah they'll just say "I'm sure you find the right girl one day"

Anonymous · Answer

I'll answer that for the women. "Because he lacks personality"... how convenient!😆😆😆

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I have zero interest in dating a woman taller than me.

grega239 · Answer

Stop listening to what women say.  9/10 its bullshit

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

They actually do. This woman in my church is married to almost a dwarf.

myloveforuisinfinte · Answer

Lmao I don't know coz no one is shorter than me 😂

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I am dating a guy shorter than me.

Redstang88 · Answer

I’ve dated girls taller than me 🤷‍♂️

pethouse · Answer

Most girls I’ve banged were taller

boggboss · Answer

Many do

Anonymous · Answer

Some of them do

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