I made him jealous to check his reaction but he left me permanently. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

[DJB72]

Learn from the dumbass mistake.

Men (note capital "M") don't play games and don't want a girl who does.

Boys in grown-up bodies will play games, but you don't want them.

You wanted a reaction, you got it. In Gen-X parlance, you fucked around and found out. Don't do it again.

[Asker]

I like the boys who actually fight for attention when made jealous

[DJB72]

Real Men will pursue you one way until you're in a relationship with them and then they'll protect you - but we don't play games.

I'll guard my wife from the attention of a man, but things change fast if she's set out to get his attention.

You decide what you're worth in this life. If you let the person you're with set up someone to try to make you jealous then walk away because someone worth your time, effort, love and respect will NEVER play that game.

And if you're feeling you have to fight to get him to notice you then you're better off without him.

[Asker]

He leaves me even if some other man gives me attention and even if I don't flirt back with the other man. He says that if another man falls in love with me it's my fault even if I don't like the other man. What to do in this situation?

[DJB72]

Be grateful that sometimes the crap flushes itself.

If you've not tried to attract a guy and some random guy you can't stand falls for you you're not responsible for someone else's feelings.

It sounds manipulative on his part. Next step is he becomes more controlling. Eventually you realise you have no friends and nobody to turn to.

Walk away. Don't look back.

[Anonymous]

lol backfired on you. That’s why don’t play stupid games. He’s gone. You screwed it up. Let him go. Maybe he will find someone who doesn’t play these stupid games. Lesson learned. Hopefully!

[Asker]

Is he great because he left me so easily for a reason he could actually fix by communicating instead of blocking?

[Opinion Owner]

No. He great because he left you for playing childish games. Maybe that’s your mentality is to act childish so he eventually got tired of it and left.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Stop playing games is what you should do, nowadays men don't have patience for these games cause they are seeking for something real and it's harder to find so it's best to save time.

[LaNc3L0TT]

You acted really immature and that is unfortunately price you are paying.

[TadCurious]

If you purposely played this kind of game to make him jealous I hope you learned a lesson from this.

[V_Injector]

You know what they say...

Play stupid games...

Win stupid prizes...

[Billlewis]

Find a guy who appreciates you for wanting to make your boyfriend jealous. I love women who do that.

[Wiredone]

It's not good to play games with people's feelings. You pushed him away by testing him.

Just move on and don't make the same mistakes with the new guy. Use this as a lesson learned

[BoopBoopBeep]

Learn from your mistakes and not play head games with the next man.

[firenine909]

Try to pull him back in and hope you didn’t push him too far away

[Asker]

He's not coming back. I tried a lot and I'm tired now.

[firenine909]

Don’t make the same mistake with the next guy. It can work but it’s push and pull.

You pulled too far away from him. You want to push and show interst and then when he’s really interested in you, to pull back slightly. Then when he’s a little confused to pull him even closer

[Tharithi]

What did u do

[firenine909]

I normally don’t pull away. I just show interest and try to be creative talking with her to get her attention and work from there

[BonzoInBitburg]

Play stupid games and win stupid prizes