How would YOU feel or would you be okay with this?

[Loveitloveit]

In your own opinion how would you feel am i wrong is she... wrong or what do you think?

●The thing that angers me is before she left she said ill call and text everyday and every min bla bla (I don't expect that but I do expect every like 7-10 hours (if you miss someone in my opinion you do)

●But she texted me 20 hours later saying hey how are you in the evening what about morning? Afternoon? Like she's the one saying I miss and love you so so much doesn't feel like it

●I know she's with her family and kid on holiday but come on effort! Or am I being an idiot?

[HollyK21]

How long is she gone for and what’s the relationship between you?

[Loveitloveit]

2 years going out
2 weeks she out for

[HollyK21]

Okay, just trying to get an idea of what the expectation should be. If you are in a relationship then yeah, I’d say I wouldn’t be happy with only hearing from my partner once or twice a day. Maybe this is just a matter of preoccupying your time more until she gets back, because while no I don’t think you’re wrong for how you’re feeling, I also understand that she’s on vacation with family and that’s where her focus is. Plus she’s a mom so I’m sure her hands are pretty full. Is there any indication of what happens next for you as a couple? After 2 years I’m surprised you’re not on the vacation as well.

[Loveitloveit]

I got a new job so I had to stay that's why I didn't go

[HollyK21]

Gotcha, well in that case I’d just do what I was saying before and preoccupy your time while she’s gone. You know nothing shady is going on and very likely she’s simply preoccupied, try not to overthink it.