Why did this happen to me?

[Anonymous]

So I went to a club yesterday went up to a girl and she looked at me up and down with a look of disgust.
I’m tall and in shape with good facial features.

But damn that hurt, it’s literally because I have darker skin she herself was a basic looking wh*re

Something similar had happened to me aswell

No it hasn’t

[_Maya_]

Because she likes what she likes and you aren't her type. Did she have to do that with a look of disgust? No. That is rude and unnecessary but it doesn't change the fact that we are all allowed to have our types and preferences. Just because you think you are all that doesn't mean she automatically has to. Maybe she is racist on top of it since you mention skin color. Who knows... only she can tell you why she is so disgusted and doubt that is going to happen if she is so offput by you. The fact that she had to make her feelings so obvious tells me she is shallow and not worth it anyway. You likely dodged a bullet.

[Asker]

I agree with you. But I was being nice

[_Maya_]

And she was being a bitch. What can you do? People be people.

[SueShe]

She probably realized that you lacked proper education.

You describe yourself as "tall and in shape with good facial features" but nowhere in your descriptive do I see anything about character and personality.

She probably recognized that fact and to her you were someone a little more primitive. The proof is that you do not hesitate to call a w***e. This is certainly not an expression that an educated person would give and after that you complain that she did not throw herself at you? She did realize that you were superficial and probably a red flag. She probably also saw the person in you that goes clubbing for the sole intention to pick up girls.

[Asker]

Well I approached her politely and respectfully

[SueShe]

Could be that you gave some vibes that made her react that way.

I guess it was one of many rejections that people have to endure in life.

[TommyMountainFigure]

It happened because in her eyes? you invaded her space by your unwarranted advances!

You could have been the best looking guy on the face of the planet and the outcome would have been the same!

Yes it has happened to me, many times at nightclubs. You should do in future what i use to do. I took with me 20 copies of a questionnaire asking for feedback on what I did wrong! Make it multiple choice. AND if you can do it with a cheeky look on your face, you'll get about 5 out of the 20 forms back in a night.
The best part? They have to come and talk to you then!!!

[BoopBoopBeep]

She wasn't a basic looking whore when you went up to her, just when she (quite rudely) expressed disinterest? Seems petty my man. You can be better than that. I agree with @_Maya_ that she could've been kinder about it, but no reason to be petty after the fact.

Maybe she didn't like how you were dressed?

[_Maya_]

Yeah there is a way to say no thanks without coming off like a complete C U Next Tuesday...

[Asker]

I was dressed well, clean. I’m a handsome dude you can’t criticise anything besides my darker skin

They simp for white men. Because I’m darker they view me as beneath them automatically

[BoopBoopBeep]

Well then F'em dude. You don't want to be someone that petty as to get hung up on skin color anyway. As Maya said... dodged a bullet.

[Asker]

True

[Apple1996]

I don't see the big deal. Maybe she just didn't find you attractive. Probably nothing to do with your skin but like personally I'm not into tall or fit guys so maybe she's the same way

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Women have no shame to be rude nowadays, especially the kind that goes clubbing.

[laly520]

I doubt its cuz of skin color

[HelpfulWoman]

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