Will he be interested in me after sex?

[NovemberRain812]

We met on bumble since he was visiting my country during new years. Our first real date was a month later when he came back to just meet me. We kissed after the first date. He went back to his country but we did sext a few times before I decided to travel to his country. I booked a ticket and a hotel before I told him. He said he was busy that weekend meeting friends but would make time for me.

He made time for me one of the nights and came over to the hotel. One thing led to another and I had sex with him twice that night. It was my first time so I was very nervous but after it all happened he showered and left to make it class the morning after. We continued to text on the phone but I feel a little anxious that now that he has gotten when he wants he will leave. What do you guys think?

[SotiCoto]

So it isn't that he said anything nor did anything in particular to make you feel insecure. You're just... spontaneously insecure on your own.

... If you're that worried, just ask him.

[NovemberRain812]

My insecurities are rooted in my past. İ have experienced sexual assault as a child and I have told him about all my scares. He knows and accepts me but I have difficulties accepting that someone can like me for who I am. I am still going through therapy so I am working on myself but overthinking is unfortunately a very bad habit.

[Anonymous]

Any time you treat something as divine as sex, casually, then on some level, it will always send a message. That message is rarely good. There was really no need for you to so any of this at all.

[laly520]

u can try dropping a hint to test if he wanna do it again or not

[katiesmuff]

Yup a dead solid relationship!

[NovemberRain812]

What do you mean exactly?

[katiesmuff]

He doesn't sound very interested

[Sameone]

I don't think is interested about you any more 😔

[LimitedBenefits101]

I don't blame him if he does.